Christian Homophobic Attitudes?

First topic message reminder :

I have tried to ask a few posters in a civil manner but they have chosen to blank me.

I was wondering if there were many forum members on here who consider themselves to be a true 'Christian' and go to church on a regular basis,I also wonder if those who do consider themselves to be Christians believe the scripture in its entirety? I don't want to mock anyone's beliefs which I know thy hold dear,I am honestly curious.

I have also noticed some homophobic remarks and wondered what causes this mentality in some people about gay men.Is this a religious prejudice or just fear based?

Joy Division wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Hello there   

Well I'm relieved to hear that.Maybe i'm a bit too harsh.

The truth is I think some men are repulsed by the idea of two men having sex and yet they claim not to have a problem with gay men and this is not easily reconciled in my mind.There is a difference in 'not being comfortable with' and 'being repulsed by'.(i'm not talking about JD or my bloke here)

If people view something with disgust that's a pretty damning judgement.

Thanks Fluffy, your alright too

But it's honestly not homophobic for straight guys to feel uncomfortable about the thought of two gay blokes having sex....otherwise if it wasn't then many more men wouldn't have a problem going with another bloke!...

Homophobic would be for example....



Two gay guys go into restaurant holding hands,then are refused service because they are gay!

I don't care what two gay lad get up to Fluffy!  

It's just that it's not for me!, and I'm not into the two girls thing either!!


It's just too strange that one!!  

Just like how Eilzel doesn't fancy women, same kind of thing really.

Say what?!

FluffyBunny wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:

if i said what JD said about gay sex id be a homophobe

but because its JD and because its her boyfriend who are "uncomfortable with gay sex" its ok

see elizel??

homophobia is fluid and undefined and subjective to an individuals perspective

do you understand now why i laugh at you every time you call me a homophobe??

Well I can explain with a little more clairty then.

I like JD and like my boyfriend (sometimes)   so didn't really want to say it.

I think their attitude is slightly homophobic,yes.I think someone who isn't 'comfortable' with two men having sex is a homophobic trait.

really???

are you comfortable with "shit play"??

what about bestiality??

what about peadophillia??

are you comfortable with these sexual preferences??

Joy Division wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Hello there   

Well I'm relieved to hear that.Maybe i'm a bit too harsh.

The truth is I think some men are repulsed by the idea of two men having sex and yet they claim not to have a problem with gay men and this is not easily reconciled in my mind.There is a difference in 'not being comfortable with' and 'being repulsed by'.(i'm not talking about JD or my bloke here)

If people view something with disgust that's a pretty damning judgement.

Thanks Fluffy, your alright too

But it's honestly not homophobic for straight guys to feel uncomfortable about the thought of two gay blokes having sex....otherwise if it wasn't then many more men wouldn't have a problem going with another bloke!...

Homophobic would be for example....



Two gay guys go into restaurant holding hands,then are refused service because they are gay!

I don't care what two gay lad get up to Fluffy!  

It's just that it's not for me!, and I'm not into the two girls thing either!!


It's just too strange that one!!  

Just like how Eilzel doesn't fancy women, same kind of thing really.

Ok I get it lol

I'm going to try and feel disgusted more often,it would make a nice change from offended.. !! ::resmahauth:: 

FluffyBunny wrote:

Eilzel wrote:

I'm not easily offended so no worries   

I am not repulsed by 'ladies' fluffy, just the thought of being intimate with them, and yes the thought of someone going down on a woman is unpleasant for me- naturally it is not something I think about unless a conversation prompted it (as in this case haha). How can that make me phobic in any sense? Sex acts and the physical body are not the same.

You are repulsed by the thought of sexual intimacy with a lady so you are phobic of that,not women themselves.I am not suggesting you are phobic of women just having sex with them.

The problem I have understanding all this apparent disgust is that disgust is a pretty strong emotion,rooted in distaste etc. It means you are viewing the other person as unattractive and unappealing.Which is fine,everyone can view things as they please...

I am not wording my opinion very well here,just that sexual physical acts with women or men don't disgust me so maybe thats why i'm having a hard time seeing the pov of others here.

Maybe I'm just mad   

Well this is what such discussions are for.

Now I have an uncle and cousin, and we often watch football together, one such player, Sergio Aguero, is clearly a very handsome man (he is my avatar btw); now fair does I go on about him about, but so do they, a lot of comments about how is the perfect looking man (his goals add to their adoration I'm sure haha); my dad has also commented when some men are clearly physically impressive as do many friends- as I can also appreciate when a woman is beautiful. But that doesn't translate to equal liking of sexual acts with those people, at all.

I see you problem is slightly semantic, it is the word disgust you seem to have a problem with. If a man is disgusted however with the thought of sex with a woman there is a word for him- gay; if a man is disgusted with the thought of sex with a man- straight; disgusted at sex in general- asexual. It isn't anykind of phobic- that is purely if you have a dislike of a person/people based on their sexuality which disliking a sexual act is not.

But I think we've gone over this now   

smelly_bandit wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Well I can explain with a little more clairty then.

I like JD and like my boyfriend (sometimes)   so didn't really want to say it.

I think their attitude is slightly homophobic,yes.I think someone who isn't 'comfortable' with two men having sex is a homophobic trait.

really???

are you comfortable with "shit play"??

what about bestiality??

what about peadophillia??

are you comfortable with these sexual preferences??



 

Er excuse me,that's a bit much.I have said many a time I am not disgusted by what TWO CONSENTING ADULTS do.

So what does peadophilla or bestiality have to do with the sexual practises of consenting adults? Nothing

You are being vicious for no reason.

BigAndy9 wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Everyone should love each other and wish each other well   

Great idea - when shall we start?    

Andy,you are loved   

FluffyBunny wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:

really???

are you comfortable with "shit play"??

what about bestiality??

what about peadophillia??

are you comfortable with these sexual preferences??



 

Er excuse me,that's a bit much.I have said many a time I am not disgusted by what TWO CONSENTING ADULTS do.

So what does peadophilla or bestiality have to do with the sexual practises of consenting adults? Nothing

You are being vicious for no reason.

Yeah I agree, paedophilia and bestiality both involve forcing sex onto someone (or something); it isn't the same, but smelly doesn't understand that; and never will.

Eilzel wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

You are repulsed by the thought of sexual intimacy with a lady so you are phobic of that,not women themselves.I am not suggesting you are phobic of women just having sex with them.

The problem I have understanding all this apparent disgust is that disgust is a pretty strong emotion,rooted in distaste etc. It means you are viewing the other person as unattractive and unappealing.Which is fine,everyone can view things as they please...

I am not wording my opinion very well here,just that sexual physical acts with women or men don't disgust me so maybe thats why i'm having a hard time seeing the pov of others here.

Maybe I'm just mad   

Well this is what such discussions are for.

Now I have an uncle and cousin, and we often watch football together, one such player, Sergio Aguero, is clearly a very handsome man (he is my avatar btw); now fair does I go on about him about, but so do they, a lot of comments about how is the perfect looking man (his goals add to their adoration I'm sure haha); my dad has also commented when some men are clearly physically impressive as do many friends- as I can also appreciate when a woman is beautiful. But that doesn't translate to equal liking of sexual acts with those people, at all.

I see you problem is slightly semantic, it is the word disgust you seem to have a problem with. If a man is disgusted however with the thought of sex with a woman there is a word for him- gay; if a man is disgusted with the thought of sex with a man- straight; disgusted at sex in general- asexual. It isn't anykind of phobic- that is purely if you have a dislike of a person/people based on their sexuality which disliking a sexual act is not.

But I think we've gone over this now   

Aye we have and I understand at last lol

And your avatar brightens up the thread I must say   

FluffyBunny wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:

really???

are you comfortable with "shit play"??

what about bestiality??

what about peadophillia??

are you comfortable with these sexual preferences??



 

Er excuse me,that's a bit much.I have said many a time I am not disgusted by what TWO CONSENTING ADULTS do.

So what does peadophilla or bestiality have to do with the sexual practises of consenting adults? Nothing

You are being vicious for no reason.

so let me get this straight

you aren't disgusted by "shit play" or scat???

you may be interested in the human centipede and "two girls one cup"

you are a sick little bunny aren't you??

smelly_bandit wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Er excuse me,that's a bit much.I have said many a time I am not disgusted by what TWO CONSENTING ADULTS do.

So what does peadophilla or bestiality have to do with the sexual practises of consenting adults? Nothing

You are being vicious for no reason.

so let me get this straight

you aren't disgusted by "shit play" or scat???

you may be interested in the human centipede and "two girls one cup"

you are a sick little bunny aren't you??

That again did not answer her points, it shows you have no answer and that she is right

All you did was woefully attack her, because she showed up your view points as idiotic

Eilzel wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Er excuse me,that's a bit much.I have said many a time I am not disgusted by what TWO CONSENTING ADULTS do.

So what does peadophilla or bestiality have to do with the sexual practises of consenting adults? Nothing

You are being vicious for no reason.

Yeah I agree, paedophilia and bestiality both involve forcing sex onto someone (or something); it isn't the same, but smelly doesn't understand that; and never will.

no no no

your hero the peadophile tatchell wants to lower the age of consent and give children the responsibility of making decisions on sex

if that sexual predator were to get his way it would mean that an adult could legally have consensual sex with a minor and effectively legalize pedophilia

in such a society would you be disgusted by consensual sex between an adult and a child??

simple question

the bestiality question is relevant since it involves an alternative sexual preference

if you're not comfortable with bestiality then lets discuss necrophilia where the permission is given by the person prior to death, and the second person is doing it willingly

tell me elizel does the thought of having consensual sex with a corpse disgust you or arouse you???

Fuck me so one person wants to lower the age, so it is claimed by smelly and this now constitutes the view of all gay people?
There are many heterosexual paedo's that want to lower the age also.


Are back to necrophilia, tell me smelly how does a corpse give consent, where even if they have left a will, in their dying breath they could have changed their mind, or do you think also wills cannot be contested?


Trust you to come out always with the extreme, what you fail to understand is that is not consensual, because one the person is dead, they cannot choose can they?

i see the idea of fucking a corpse is making didge uncomfortable

i guess that makes him a bigot and a "necrophobe"

smelly_bandit wrote:i see the idea of fucking a corpse is making didge uncomfortable

i guess that makes him a bigot and a "necrophobe"

Actually it shows you cannot refute my points and again divert to now claiming I am uncomfortable, which is nonsense, clearly after bashing your idiotic views

But please continue, is always a laugh to show you up

smelly_bandit wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Er excuse me,that's a bit much.I have said many a time I am not disgusted by what TWO CONSENTING ADULTS do.

So what does peadophilla or bestiality have to do with the sexual practises of consenting adults? Nothing

You are being vicious for no reason.

so let me get this straight

you aren't disgusted by "shit play" or scat???

you may be interested in the human centipede and "two girls one cup"

you are a sick little bunny aren't you??

Its you that is coming across as sick tbh.

I wouldn't want to indulge in 'scat' myself and I don't even know what the other thing you refer to is.

What other people do behind closed doors as long as they are happy and consenting is not my business.Yes I do think the scat thing is sick but no one is forcing me to do it so I can't say i ever think of it.

Why are you trying to make out I'm some sort if weirdo? Its really getting on my nerves.

Wow it's like smelly just ignored the whole conversation since he left, typical BS.

Eilzel wrote:Wow it's like smelly just ignored the whole conversation since he left, typical BS.

Yes that does seem to be his MO

I'm not very happy being dismissed as 'sick' tbh

Typical leftie behaviour,I'm back to being offended   

Eilzel wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

You are repulsed by the thought of sexual intimacy with a lady so you are phobic of that,not women themselves.I am not suggesting you are phobic of women just having sex with them.

The problem I have understanding all this apparent disgust is that disgust is a pretty strong emotion,rooted in distaste etc. It means you are viewing the other person as unattractive and unappealing.Which is fine,everyone can view things as they please...

I am not wording my opinion very well here,just that sexual physical acts with women or men don't disgust me so maybe thats why i'm having a hard time seeing the pov of others here.

Maybe I'm just mad   

Well this is what such discussions are for.

Now I have an uncle and cousin, and we often watch football together, one such player, Sergio Aguero, is clearly a very handsome man (he is my avatar btw); now fair does I go on about him about, but so do they, a lot of comments about how is the perfect looking man (his goals add to their adoration I'm sure haha); my dad has also commented when some men are clearly physically impressive as do many friends- as I can also appreciate when a woman is beautiful. But that doesn't translate to equal liking of sexual acts with those people, at all.

I see you problem is slightly semantic, it is the word disgust you seem to have a problem with. If a man is disgusted however with the thought of sex with a woman there is a word for him- gay; if a man is disgusted with the thought of sex with a man- straight; disgusted at sex in general- asexual. It isn't anykind of phobic- that is purely if you have a dislike of a person/people based on their sexuality which disliking a sexual act is not.

But I think we've gone over this now   

Hi Les   xxxx

Hope you're well! That's an interesting comment.  In my experience I think straight men find it difficult to appreciate other men's good looks, especially vocally to other men.  Women don't tend to have the same issues and appreciate beauty (whatever that means!) regardless of sexual preference in both men and women.

Consensual sex between two adults, should that disgust anyone?  As far as animals, children are concern    but two adults just because you're not into that gender sexually or indeed their preferences?

It just doesn't do it for you we're all unique and sexual pleasure means different things to different people.  I guess for me it's about accepting that diversity and live and let live if no one is getting hurt.  Who of us has the right to judge?

feelthelove wrote:

Eilzel wrote:

Well this is what such discussions are for.

Now I have an uncle and cousin, and we often watch football together, one such player, Sergio Aguero, is clearly a very handsome man (he is my avatar btw); now fair does I go on about him about, but so do they, a lot of comments about how is the perfect looking man (his goals add to their adoration I'm sure haha); my dad has also commented when some men are clearly physically impressive as do many friends- as I can also appreciate when a woman is beautiful. But that doesn't translate to equal liking of sexual acts with those people, at all.

I see you problem is slightly semantic, it is the word disgust you seem to have a problem with. If a man is disgusted however with the thought of sex with a woman there is a word for him- gay; if a man is disgusted with the thought of sex with a man- straight; disgusted at sex in general- asexual. It isn't anykind of phobic- that is purely if you have a dislike of a person/people based on their sexuality which disliking a sexual act is not.

But I think we've gone over this now   

Hi Les   xxxx

Hope you're well! That's an interesting comment.  In my experience I think straight men find it difficult to appreciate other men's good looks, especially vocally to other men.  Women don't tend to have the same issues and appreciate beauty (whatever that means!) regardless of sexual preference in both men and women.

Consensual sex between two adults, should that disgust anyone?  As far as animals, children are concern    but two adults just because you're not into that gender sexually or indeed their preferences?

It just doesn't do it for you we're all unique and sexual pleasure means different things to different people.  I guess for me it's about accepting that diversity and live and let live if no one is getting hurt.  Who of us has the right to judge?

Excellent post x

If there was a bit less judging of others and more introspective thinking about how we individually treat others,the world would be a better place.

FluffyBunny wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:

so let me get this straight

you aren't disgusted by "shit play" or scat???

you may be interested in the human centipede and "two girls one cup"

you are a sick little bunny aren't you??

Its you that is coming across as sick tbh.

I wouldn't want to indulge in 'scat' myself and I don't even know what the other thing you refer to is.

What other people do behind closed doors as long as they are happy and consenting is not my business.Yes I do think the scat thing is sick but no one is forcing me to do it so I can't say i ever think of it.

Why are you trying to make out I'm some sort if weirdo? Its really getting on my nerves.

no we reach the crux of the issue


"Yes I do think the scat thing is sick"

so its safe to say that you are disgusted by the thought of scat??

can we agree on that ???

Eilzel wrote:Wow it's like smelly just ignored the whole conversation since he left, typical BS.

lol

come on elizel i think you are realizing where this is headed aren't you??

wink wink nudge nudge

smelly_bandit wrote:

Eilzel wrote:Wow it's like smelly just ignored the whole conversation since he left, typical BS.

lol

come on elizel i think you are realizing where this is headed aren't you??

wink wink nudge nudge

That you are going to be wrong again?


I suppose next you will be telling us a person willing to be killed in the act of sex is also consensually okay smelly?

my names didge i don't contribute to any discussion but if you don't  ::attn:: ill bore you with plenty of  :-:bravo:-: :-:bravo:-: :-:bravo:-: :-:bravo:-: :-:bravo:-: :-:bravo:-: 

Bless another epic fail from smelly ha ha ha ha ha ha ha


Such a child ha ha ha

feelthelove wrote:

Eilzel wrote:

Well this is what such discussions are for.

Now I have an uncle and cousin, and we often watch football together, one such player, Sergio Aguero, is clearly a very handsome man (he is my avatar btw); now fair does I go on about him about, but so do they, a lot of comments about how is the perfect looking man (his goals add to their adoration I'm sure haha); my dad has also commented when some men are clearly physically impressive as do many friends- as I can also appreciate when a woman is beautiful. But that doesn't translate to equal liking of sexual acts with those people, at all.

I see you problem is slightly semantic, it is the word disgust you seem to have a problem with. If a man is disgusted however with the thought of sex with a woman there is a word for him- gay; if a man is disgusted with the thought of sex with a man- straight; disgusted at sex in general- asexual. It isn't anykind of phobic- that is purely if you have a dislike of a person/people based on their sexuality which disliking a sexual act is not.

But I think we've gone over this now   

Hi Les   xxxx

Hope you're well! That's an interesting comment.  In my experience I think straight men find it difficult to appreciate other men's good looks, especially vocally to other men.  Women don't tend to have the same issues and appreciate beauty (whatever that means!) regardless of sexual preference in both men and women.

Consensual sex between two adults, should that disgust anyone?  As far as animals, children are concern    but two adults just because you're not into that gender sexually or indeed their preferences?

It just doesn't do it for you we're all unique and sexual pleasure means different things to different people.  I guess for me it's about accepting that diversity and live and let live if no one is getting hurt.  Who of us has the right to judge?

Hi FtL x

The judgment thing was really what I was getting at, in spite of things we don't like (like people eating frogs legs) we don't judge and just love one another knowing we all have different preferences on things- including who we fall in love with (and whatever sexual acts go with it).

As to men saying things about other men. I suppose a lot of that is generational, your social circles and also being comfortable in your own sexuality. I have no problem discussing sex with my friends nor they me, and the details are not always left out and remember my friends are entirely straight guys haha.

Didge wrote:Bless another epic fail from smelly ha ha ha ha ha ha ha


Such a child ha ha ha

yes yes another epic fail and all the rest

wanna throw in some "dohs" well you're at it??

you're boring me

im talking to elizel and FB

smelly_bandit wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Its you that is coming across as sick tbh.

I wouldn't want to indulge in 'scat' myself and I don't even know what the other thing you refer to is.

What other people do behind closed doors as long as they are happy and consenting is not my business.Yes I do think the scat thing is sick but no one is forcing me to do it so I can't say i ever think of it.

Why are you trying to make out I'm some sort if weirdo? Its really getting on my nerves.

no we reach the crux of the issue


"Yes I do think the scat thing is sick"

so its  safe to say that you are disgusted by the thought of scat??

can we agree on that ???

I'm not sure how this is relevant but yes we can....

I don't know why I AM HAVING THIS CONVERSATION! ::lightsab:: 

smelly_bandit wrote:

Didge wrote:Bless another epic fail from smelly ha ha ha ha ha ha ha


Such a child ha ha ha

yes yes another epic fail and all the rest

wanna throw in some "dohs" well you're at it??

you're boring me

im talking to elizel and FB

You are boring me with your ignorance, but am here to always make you look a right wally.


They are mocking you too if you had not noticed ha ha showing even more how dim you are


DOH

smelly_bandit wrote:

Didge wrote:Bless another epic fail from smelly ha ha ha ha ha ha ha


Such a child ha ha ha

yes yes another epic fail and all the rest

wanna throw in some "dohs" well you're at it??

you're boring me

im talking to elizel and FB

We're talking, I'm done with watching you debate with what you tell me I'm saying   

FluffyBunny wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:

no we reach the crux of the issue


"Yes I do think the scat thing is sick"

so its  safe to say that you are disgusted by the thought of scat??

can we agree on that ???

I'm not sure how this is relevant but yes we can....

I don't know why I AM HAVING THIS CONVERSATION! ::lightsab:: 

good

so

a person who is "uncomfortable" with the idea of homosexual sex is labelled a "homophobe" by your good self

you are disgusted by the thought of two consenting adults indulging in scat

so the question i have is this

what does that make you???

are you a "scataphobe" or just a regular bigot??

smelly_bandit wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

I'm not sure how this is relevant but yes we can....

I don't know why I AM HAVING THIS CONVERSATION! ::lightsab:: 

good

so

a person who is "uncomfortable" with the idea of homosexual sex is labelled a "homophobe" by your good self

you are disgusted by the thought of two consenting adults indulging in scat

so the question i have is this

what does that make you???

are you a "scataphobe" or just a regular bigot??

I'm not exactly sure what it is and I really don't want to get into details,I don't understand what on earth this has to do with anything  

If you say I'm a bigot Smelly,how can I argue.

smelly_bandit wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

I'm not sure how this is relevant but yes we can....

I don't know why I AM HAVING THIS CONVERSATION! ::lightsab:: 

good

so

a person who is "uncomfortable" with the idea of homosexual sex is labelled a "homophobe" by your good self

you are disgusted by the thought of two consenting adults indulging in scat

so the question i have is this

what does that make you???

are you a "scataphobe" or just a regular bigot??

Hmm she also said what two consenting adults do within their own home is up to them, but you always miss the relevant parts.
Nobody is saying you have to like homosexuality, but nobody is saying you should be prejudice against people into scat either, the point you utterly miss or even comprehend

FluffyBunny wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:

good

so

a person who is "uncomfortable" with the idea of homosexual sex is labelled a "homophobe" by your good self

you are disgusted by the thought of two consenting adults indulging in scat

so the question i have is this

what does that make you???

are you a "scataphobe" or just a regular bigot??

I'm not exactly sure what it is and I really don't want to get into details,I don't understand what on earth this has to do with anything  

If you say I'm a bigot Smelly,how can I argue.

oh dear me you're not pulling the ole "Ive just screwed myself into a corner so i better pretend i don't understand" gag on me are you???

im not saying your a bigot

you're saying you are a bigot

Eilzel wrote:

feelthelove wrote:

Hi Les   xxxx

Hope you're well! That's an interesting comment.  In my experience I think straight men find it difficult to appreciate other men's good looks, especially vocally to other men.  Women don't tend to have the same issues and appreciate beauty (whatever that means!) regardless of sexual preference in both men and women.

Consensual sex between two adults, should that disgust anyone?  As far as animals, children are concern    but two adults just because you're not into that gender sexually or indeed their preferences?

It just doesn't do it for you we're all unique and sexual pleasure means different things to different people.  I guess for me it's about accepting that diversity and live and let live if no one is getting hurt.  Who of us has the right to judge?

Hi FtL x

The judgment thing was really what I was getting at, in spite of things we don't like (like people eating frogs legs) we don't judge and just love one another knowing we all have different preferences on things- including who we fall in love with (and whatever sexual acts go with it).

As to men saying things about other men. I suppose a lot of that is generational, your social circles  and also being comfortable in your own sexuality. I have no problem discussing sex with my friends nor they me, and the details are not always left out and remember my friends are entirely straight guys haha.

  We shouldn't be surprised by that Les, it should be usual and everyday behaviour   x

smelly_bandit wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

I'm not exactly sure what it is and I really don't want to get into details,I don't understand what on earth this has to do with anything  

If you say I'm a bigot Smelly,how can I argue.

oh dear me you're not pulling the ole "Ive just screwed myself into a corner so i better pretend i don't understand" gag on me are you???

im not saying your a bigot

you're saying you are a bigot

What two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes is not my business and if they are not hurting anyone else,i have no right to judge them.

If that makes me a bigot,fair do's.   

Eilzel wrote:

feelthelove wrote:

Hi Les   xxxx

Hope you're well! That's an interesting comment.  In my experience I think straight men find it difficult to appreciate other men's good looks, especially vocally to other men.  Women don't tend to have the same issues and appreciate beauty (whatever that means!) regardless of sexual preference in both men and women.

Consensual sex between two adults, should that disgust anyone?  As far as animals, children are concern    but two adults just because you're not into that gender sexually or indeed their preferences?

It just doesn't do it for you we're all unique and sexual pleasure means different things to different people.  I guess for me it's about accepting that diversity and live and let live if no one is getting hurt.  Who of us has the right to judge?

Hi FtL x

The judgment thing was really what I was getting at, in spite of things we don't like (like people eating frogs legs) we don't judge and just love one another knowing we all have different preferences on things- including who we fall in love with (and whatever sexual acts go with it).

As to men saying things about other men. I suppose a lot of that is generational, your social circles  and also being comfortable in your own sexuality. I have no problem discussing sex with my friends nor they me, and the details are not always left out and remember my friends are entirely straight guys haha.

Well it all sounds lovely. However, I would judge someone for eating frogs legs, and also if they were into animal abuse - ie, hunting animals for fun. People judge others all the time, even if they don't admit it.

BigAndy9 wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

Everyone should love each other and wish each other well   

Great idea - when shall we start?    

Bad boy   

Ragga, you are missing the point about the things I mentioned being harmless; do not fall into the twisted trap of comparing consensual activities between two adults to harmful and violent acts.

Eilzel wrote:Ragga, you are missing the point about the things I mentioned being harmless; do not fall into the twisted trap of comparing consensual activities between two adults to harmful and violent acts.

Some people might say that eating frogs legs is harmless, and that hunting for fun is a perfectly fine way to spend a day.

FluffyBunny wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:

oh dear me you're not pulling the ole "Ive just screwed myself into a corner so i better pretend i don't understand" gag on me are you???

im not saying your a bigot

you're saying you are a bigot

What two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes is not my business and if they are not hurting anyone else,i have no right to judge them.

If that makes me a bigot,fair do's.   

That's not what makes you a bigot

You're own judgement of others is what make you a bigot

Didge wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:i see the idea of fucking a corpse is making didge uncomfortable

i guess that makes him a bigot and a "necrophobe"

Actually it shows you cannot refute my points and again divert to now claiming I am uncomfortable, which is nonsense, clearly after bashing your idiotic views

But please continue, is always a laugh to show you up

Umm Didge
If I were you I would not Deny being a Necrophobe, the enlightened Smelly of course is not and loves partaking in the 'activities'  

OF Course he does miss the point as per usual        he thinks if it doesn't say no it consents.      

veya_victaous wrote:

Didge wrote:



Actually it shows you cannot refute my points and again divert to now claiming I am uncomfortable, which is nonsense, clearly after bashing your idiotic views

But please continue, is always a laugh to show you up

Umm Didge
If I were you I would not Deny being a Necrophobe, the enlightened Smelly of course is not and loves partaking in the 'activities'  

OF Course he does miss the point as per usual        he thinks if it doesn't say no it consents.      

Poor little lefty

You guys really don't like here this is going do you??

smelly_bandit wrote:

FluffyBunny wrote:

What two consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes is not my business and if they are not hurting anyone else,i have no right to judge them.

If that makes me a bigot,fair do's.   

That's not what makes you a bigot

You're own judgement of others is what make you a bigot

I am bigoted against bigots only   

smelly_bandit wrote:

veya_victaous wrote:

Didge wrote:



Actually it shows you cannot refute my points and again divert to now claiming I am uncomfortable, which is nonsense, clearly after bashing your idiotic views

But please continue, is always a laugh to show you up

Umm Didge
If I were you I would not Deny being a Necrophobe, the enlightened Smelly of course is not and loves partaking in the 'activities'  

OF Course he does miss the point as per usual        he thinks if it doesn't say no it consents.      

Poor little lefty

You guys really don't like here this is going do you??

No     
We understand 'Consent'      Your Failure to Grasp the Concept of 'Consenting Adults' is all that is going on here

veya_victaous wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:


Poor little lefty

You guys really don't like here this is going do you??

No     
We understand 'Consent'      Your Failure to Grasp the Concept of 'Consenting Adults' is all that is going on here

Once you've taken your anti hysteria pills and read what I actually posted and not translating it into leftspeak

I will receive your apology

smelly_bandit wrote:

veya_victaous wrote:

No     
We understand 'Consent'      Your Failure to Grasp the Concept of 'Consenting Adults' is all that is going on here

Once you've taken your anti hysteria pills and read what I actually posted and not translating it into leftspeak

I will receive your apology

You think anyone left of Anders Brevik is left speak, so Veya is very much correct

Didge wrote:

smelly_bandit wrote:

veya_victaous wrote:

No     
We understand 'Consent'      Your Failure to Grasp the Concept of 'Consenting Adults' is all that is going on here

Once you've taken your anti hysteria pills and read what I actually posted and not translating it into leftspeak

I will receive your apology

You think anyone left of Anders Brevik is left speak, so Veya is very much correct

Now, now, Didge    don't be a Nercophobe and pick on Smelly       

Apology Accepted Smelly Bandit        

I saw a terrible remark the other day - something about anal sex. I think the person who made it must be very homophobic.