IS THERE ANY WAY WE CAN ALL GET ALONG AND LEAVE THE PAST BEHIND US ?

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Hi all ,

I have known a few of you on here for a few years now and i have argued with most at some point, I just wonder can we all put the past behind us and get along , life is too short to keep bickering and it really isn't good for any of us , unless of course you enjoy a good argument lol 

I just think about how nice it would be without the threads being full of us all calling each other names and swearing at each other. 

We are all people from different back grounds and some different religions ,but we are all living on the same planet and is it really worth all the arguments we might not be here tomorrow we don't know what is around the corner not wanting to sound gloomy , but we don't know and i for one just want to be happy . 

I realized how wonderful life is today when my gorgeous little grandson walked in during tea time, my heart filled with love for him and i thought myself , wow life is so good . 

love and peace everyone what do you all think ?

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You have also let Clarkson/Drinky post on here, when he was previously been banned for abuses.

Catman wrote:

Ben_Reilly wrote:

Catman wrote:

Oh FFS!

Seems like you bitches have the knives out, for certain posters on this board, that you percieve to wield some kind of power, when actually they don't. ::zomb:: ::zomb:: ::zomb:: 

I'm really tired of you calling the female members here "bitches," Catman.

You don't like your sexual orientation brought into things. I would expect you to extend the same consideration when it comes to gender.

This is a warning.

....And you ignore, homophobic slurs, that i have posted to you via pm.

....So take your fucking warning and shove it.

I'm serious, man. I got your PM, looked at the post and judged it wasn't homophobic. Sorry if you don't like it but this is not your site and it's not your call to make.

As far as Clarkson goes, I have no proof that he's still here or, if he is, who he is.

.....You think that they will stop at the first sacraficial lamb?

  

Catman wrote:.....You think that they will stop at the first sacraficial lamb?

  

I don't know what you mean by that, but I'm sick of reading things like "take your fucking warning and shove it," I'll tell you that much.

Ben_Reilly wrote:

Catman wrote:

....And you ignore, homophobic slurs, that i have posted to you via pm.

....So take your fucking warning and shove it.

I'm serious, man. I got your PM, looked at the post and judged it wasn't homophobic. Sorry if you don't like it but this is not your site and it's not your call to make.

As far as Clarkson goes, I have no proof that he's still here or, if he is, who he is.

It's your site.

You have no proof that he's here?

     

Catman wrote:

Ben_Reilly wrote:

Catman wrote:

....And you ignore, homophobic slurs, that i have posted to you via pm.

....So take your fucking warning and shove it.

I'm serious, man. I got your PM, looked at the post and judged it wasn't homophobic. Sorry if you don't like it but this is not your site and it's not your call to make.

As far as Clarkson goes, I have no proof that he's still here or, if he is, who he is.

It's your site.

You have no proof that he's here?

     

Is that not what I just said?

Catman wrote:

Ben_Reilly wrote:

I'm serious, man. I got your PM, looked at the post and judged it wasn't homophobic. Sorry if you don't like it but this is not your site and it's not your call to make.

As far as Clarkson goes, I have no proof that he's still here or, if he is, who he is.

It's your site.

You have no proof that he's here?

     

Phil, there are ways that people can hide their ids, so Ben probably has no proof. Don't bite my head off, but can I just try and suggest you try and find a way not to be so angry and I'm not saying it's all your fault, we have all been having a go one way or the other.

This just makes me feel bad -- I seriously, physically feel sick right now. I may have to look into whether someone else wants to take over as admin if they think they can do a better job at it.

All I can say is, Catman? If this was your site and I was a member, and you had stuck up for me the way I have stuck up for you here and tried to be your friend, there is no way I'd turn around and treat you like that.

Ben_Reilly wrote:This just makes me feel bad -- I seriously, physically feel sick right now. I may have to look into whether someone else wants to take over as admin if they think they can do a better job at it.

All I can say is, Catman? If this was your site and I was a member, and you had stuck up for me the way I have stuck up for you here and tried to be your friend, there is no way I'd turn around and treat you like that.

Dude...c'mon have a few brewskis, decent nights sleep and go out and have fun this weekend xxx

Cass wrote:

Ben_Reilly wrote:This just makes me feel bad -- I seriously, physically feel sick right now. I may have to look into whether someone else wants to take over as admin if they think they can do a better job at it.

All I can say is, Catman? If this was your site and I was a member, and you had stuck up for me the way I have stuck up for you here and tried to be your friend, there is no way I'd turn around and treat you like that.

Dude...c'mon have a few brewskis, decent nights sleep and go out and have fun this weekend xxx

Thanks, Cass

Get blethered and say to hell with all of us. Find someone to take you mind off things   

You're a stonking Admin, Ben. I hope you decide to stay on.

Thanks, guys. I didn't set out to have periodic volcanic eruptions be a regular feature here, but que sera sera ...

FFS!

If you think that by getting rid of me, it will make the site get better, judging by history, it hasn't really made a jot....

Sites have folded, when i wasn't even a member, until very late again, cite SF.

Those arguments had nothing to do with me....but that site was embroiled in arguments, then closed, then they came here...They didn't come here until the druid closed down SF.

Catman wrote:FFS!

If you think that by getting rid of me, it will make the site get better, judging by history, it hasn't really made a jot....

Sites have folded, when i wasn't even a member, until very late again, cite SF.

Those arguments had nothing to do with me....but that site was embroiled in arguments, then closed, then they came here...They didn't come here until the druid closed down SF.

I'm not trying to get rid of you, dude -- just asking you to play nicer with the other kiddies. Cool?

The peeps from SF, most were mods, and the clique and arguments were in the mod section FFS!

Catman wrote:The peeps from SF, most were mods, and the clique and arguments were in the mod section FFS!

And yet ... I don't care. Really do not.

Catman wrote:FFS!

If you think that by getting rid of me, it will make the site get better, judging by history, it hasn't really made a jot....

Sites have folded, when i wasn't even a member, until very late again, cite SF.

Those arguments had nothing to do with me....but that site was embroiled in arguments, then closed, then they came here...They didn't come here until the druid closed down SF.

Phil, nobody wants to get rid of you, you were here before we were. I think Ben has just had enough of the infighting, and lets face it, we are not angels. I'm putting Nems back on ignore, for Ben's sanity if nothing else. How about you?

Ben_Reilly wrote:

Catman wrote:FFS!

If you think that by getting rid of me, it will make the site get better, judging by history, it hasn't really made a jot....

Sites have folded, when i wasn't even a member, until very late again, cite SF.

Those arguments had nothing to do with me....but that site was embroiled in arguments, then closed, then they came here...They didn't come here until the druid closed down SF.

I'm not trying to get rid of you, dude -- just asking you to play nicer with the other kiddies. Cool?

I will continue to defend myself.

End of.

Sassy wrote:

Catman wrote:FFS!

If you think that by getting rid of me, it will make the site get better, judging by history, it hasn't really made a jot....

Sites have folded, when i wasn't even a member, until very late again, cite SF.

Those arguments had nothing to do with me....but that site was embroiled in arguments, then closed, then they came here...They didn't come here until the druid closed down SF.

Phil, nobody wants to get rid of you, you were here before we were.   I think Ben has just had enough of the infighting, and lets face it, we are not angels.   I'm putting Nems back on ignore, for Ben's sanity if nothing else.   How about you?

OK....That's fair enough.

I put didge on ignore, so it's the best move to put her on ignore as well.

Catman wrote:

Sassy wrote:

Phil, nobody wants to get rid of you, you were here before we were.   I think Ben has just had enough of the infighting, and lets face it, we are not angels.   I'm putting Nems back on ignore, for Ben's sanity if nothing else.   How about you?

OK....That's fair enough.

I put didge on ignore, so it's the best move to put her on ignore as well.

  

Ben won't need the men in white coats lol

Sassy wrote:

Catman wrote:

Sassy wrote:

Phil, nobody wants to get rid of you, you were here before we were.   I think Ben has just had enough of the infighting, and lets face it, we are not angels.   I'm putting Nems back on ignore, for Ben's sanity if nothing else.   How about you?

OK....That's fair enough.

I put didge on ignore, so it's the best move to put her on ignore as well.

  

Ben won't need the men in white coats lol

Don't be so confident     

Ben_Reilly wrote:

Sassy wrote:

  

Ben won't need the men in white coats lol

Don't be so confident     

Go on, you're tougher than you make out lol

And on that note, I'll say goodnight, didn't realise the time. Night all.

Sassy wrote:

Catman wrote:

OK....That's fair enough.

I put didge on ignore, so it's the best move to put her on ignore as well.

  

Ben won't need the men in white coats lol

I tried to renew my passport today, i was shaking so much, that my signature went outside of that little box, passport application denied!  

Atleast i got the photo's done though, we got a black pen, so it took me a few hours tonight, to put every letter within every tiny box, but i managed that atleast....I sent it postal, with debit card details.

I will not be bullied anymore!   

Good for you, hope your passport photo wasn't as bad as mine, I renewed my one! Night, peace and quiet tomorrow, ignoring put back in place x

Sassy wrote:Good for you, hope your passport photo wasn't as bad as mine, I renewed my one!   Night, peace and quiet tomorrow, ignoring put back in place x

Have you been to one of those new passport machines?

Doug was creasing up!   ....They ask to many questions, and telling you how you should sit etc...press this button, press that button...then press green.

I was swearing very loudly, it used to be so fucking simple!

Glaring passport pictures must be the norm now.

You used to put the money in, and it the took fucking photo's...  

Sassy wrote:

Ben_Reilly wrote:

Don't be so confident     

Go on, you're tougher than you make out lol

And on that note, I'll say goodnight, didn't realise the time. Night all.

Goodnight sassy ....oh lord Montgomery is a commentator now???? Crap I am so moving into a hotel until monday

lovedust wrote:
You're a stonking Admin, Ben. I hope you decide to stay on.

Seconded, you are a sound Admin Ben, possibly the best and fairest I've known, so don't be going anywhere now. Do whatever you think you have to do- just don't step down   

Eilzel wrote:

lovedust wrote:
You're a stonking Admin, Ben. I hope you decide to stay on.

Seconded, you are a sound Admin Ben, possibly the best and fairest I've known, so don't be going anywhere now. Do whatever you think you have to do- just don't step down   

Morning all

Thirded.

New day to day, sun not shining as promised but maybe later.

Seriously Ben you do a cracking job here and Catman is as usual playing the victim status, which is of course an utter joke. He is happy for you to take to task any for being anti-homosexual and then in the same breath thinks he is immune from being discriminating with calling women bitches which is nothing short of him being sexiest. You rarely see him admit to any wrong and again here we see is nothing but excuses for his poor behaviour. 

He is always going to be a right pain in the arse, no pun intended and I find it best if you just let him throw his dummy out of the pram. He knows the rules, same goes for all, he is not exempt just because he has had some anti-homosexual comments thrown his way, it is appalling he uses that to try to undermine the abuse he constantly dishes out.

There is no excuse for any abuse, from me or anyone and everyone only has themselves to blame if they get involved, as it does not matter who started it or who said what, as all who get involved throwing abuse are wrong.


I concur with Eilzel, best admin and fairest I have come across

Just for the record I have never complained to Ben about anyone calling me names and I never complained about being called a bitch either.

And I'd rather he didn't resign as admin as I've grown quite fond of his hairy belly.

Oh cripes!

eddie wrote:Just for the record I have never complained to Ben about anyone calling me names and I never complained about being called a bitch either.

And I'd rather he didn't resign as admin as I've grown quite fond of his hairy belly.

i did and have complained but only on an item or two that went well beyond the pale but that has stopped..

I wouldn't want Ben too step down, Who knows what we could end up with...  

I admit to complaining to Ben when me and my husband were wished cancer and death on

BigAndy9 wrote:Oh cripes!    

Really weird. Was just wondering where you were and like a bad penny.....   

VOD(original) wrote:I admit to complaining to Ben when me and my husband were wished cancer and death on

yeah there are some sick puppies out there...  

I don't know why its necessary for anyone to run complaining to Admin about being called names, everyone on here is an adult and capable of giving as good as they get. It must be like being a teacher in a playground sometimes.

If you don't like it there is a little x button at the top right hand corner of the screen, just press that and all your problems will be over.

harvesmom wrote:I don't know why its necessary for anyone to run complaining to Admin about being called names, everyone on here is an adult and capable of giving as good as they get. It must be like being a teacher in a playground sometimes.

If you don't like it there is a little x button at the top right hand corner of the screen, just press that and all your problems will be over.

I think admin need to set an example though and not wish cancer and death on us , that isn't acceptable

VOD(original) wrote:

harvesmom wrote:I don't know why its necessary for anyone to run complaining to Admin about being called names, everyone on here is an adult and capable of giving as good as they get. It must be like being a teacher in a playground sometimes.

If you don't like it there is a little x button at the top right hand corner of the screen, just press that and all your problems will be over.

I think admin need to set an example though and not wish cancer and death on us , that isn't acceptable

I agree ...  

VOD(original) wrote:

harvesmom wrote:I don't know why its necessary for anyone to run complaining to Admin about being called names, everyone on here is an adult and capable of giving as good as they get. It must be like being a teacher in a playground sometimes.

If you don't like it there is a little x button at the top right hand corner of the screen, just press that and all your problems will be over.

I think admin need to set an example though and not wish cancer and death on us , that isn't acceptable

When did Ben wish cancer and death on you?

eddie wrote:

VOD(original) wrote:
I think admin need to set an example though and not wish cancer and death on us , that isn't acceptable

When did Ben wish cancer and death on you?

veya is admin he did

VOD(original) wrote:

harvesmom wrote:I don't know why its necessary for anyone to run complaining to Admin about being called names, everyone on here is an adult and capable of giving as good as they get. It must be like being a teacher in a playground sometimes.

If you don't like it there is a little x button at the top right hand corner of the screen, just press that and all your problems will be over.

I think admin need to set an example though and not wish cancer and death on us , that isn't acceptable

Well lets be absolutely fair here, you have said a lot worse to people in the past. Its not nice no, but then what did you say to him first to get him to say that? I cant imagine anyone just posting that out of the blue.

harvesmom wrote:

VOD(original) wrote:
I think admin need to set an example though and not wish cancer and death on us , that isn't acceptable

Well lets be absolutely fair here, you have said a lot worse to people in the past. Its not nice no, but then what did you say to him first to get him to say that? I cant imagine anyone just posting that out of the blue.

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Godisgoodallthetime wrote:

harvesmom wrote:

Well lets be absolutely fair here, you have said a lot worse to people in the past. Its not nice no, but then what did you say to him first to get him to say that? I cant imagine anyone just posting that out of the blue.

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Bob me on ignore if you find my posts boring, I promise I wont be offended

harvesmom wrote:

Godisgoodallthetime wrote:


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Bob me on ignore if you find my posts boring, I promise I wont be offended

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harvesmom wrote:

VOD(original) wrote:
I think admin need to set an example though and not wish cancer and death on us , that isn't acceptable

Well lets be absolutely fair here, you have said a lot worse to people in the past. Its not nice no, but then what did you say to him first to get him to say that? I cant imagine anyone just posting that out of the blue.

disagree i would say equal, sm has wished death on my whole family too so nobody are angels , anyway this is exactly why nobody can move on because people lke you keep bringing up that what i said was worse , better if we don't speak i think 
bye

Godisgoodallthetime wrote:

harvesmom wrote:

Bob me on ignore if you find my posts boring, I promise I wont be offended

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Really? Says the most boringly repetitive poster on this site   

Godisgoodallthetime wrote:

harvesmom wrote:

Bob me on ignore if you find my posts boring, I promise I wont be offended

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What a boring twanker! It is always the same boring stuff!