Was she being selfish? Meet the mother who went on a £5,000 holiday to Bora Bora while her husband and children had a soggy caravan break in Dorset

by SEXY MAMA Wed Jul 16, 2014 9:35 am

Jules Osmany took a sip of her Mai Tai cocktail, surveyed the crystal-clear water glittering in front of her and reflected that this was her best-ever holiday.

She’d enjoyed a luxury suite, relaxing massages, exotic food, sand as soft as talcum powder and fascinating culture.

What she hadn’t done, though, was share this blissful break with her family.

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Firstly why is this the main headline on DM??????

Secondly what do you guys think? Was she selfish? Should she have taken her kids?

by nicko Wed Jul 16, 2014 9:39 am

She could have had a holiday on her own, but not at that price. A cheaper one could have been taken leaving cash for one with the family.

by SEXY MAMA Wed Jul 16, 2014 9:42 am

nicko wrote:She could have had a holiday on her own, but not at that price. A cheaper one could have been taken leaving cash for one with the family.

That's what I believe too Nicko

I don't know why people nowadays make such a big deal of "getting away" from it all!!!!

Children are a precious gift and spending time with them should be every parents main priority!

by Guest Wed Jul 16, 2014 10:17 am

Absolutely bizarre how some parents' minds work.

by Raggamuffin Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:07 pm

It was her money, so she can do what she likes with it. I wouldn't spend that kind of money on one holiday myself, but other people seem to love that kind of thing.

by SEXY MAMA Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:20 pm

Raggamuffin wrote:It was her money, so she can do what she likes with it. I wouldn't spend that kind of money on one holiday myself, but other people seem to love that kind of thing.

I'm not disputing that fact however the point is she was selfish.

by Raggamuffin Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:24 pm

SEXY MAMA wrote:
Raggamuffin wrote:It was her money, so she can do what she likes with it. I wouldn't spend that kind of money on one holiday myself, but other people seem to love that kind of thing.

I'm not disputing that fact however the point is she was selfish.

That depends on whether or not the rest of her family wanted to go. Perhaps they weren't bothered.

by SEXY MAMA Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:28 pm

Raggamuffin wrote:
SEXY MAMA wrote:

I'm not disputing that fact however the point is she was selfish.

That depends on whether or not the rest of her family wanted to go. Perhaps they weren't bothered.

Highly unlikely........

by Raggamuffin Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:36 pm

SEXY MAMA wrote:
Raggamuffin wrote:

That depends on whether or not the rest of her family wanted to go. Perhaps they weren't bothered.

Highly unlikely........

Why? I don't think children care that much where they go on holiday. It says one of the kids got upset, but I expect she got over it.

Even if she selfish, does it matter? People have this very idealised view of how families should behave, but this is the real world.

I just wonder how the press gets hold of these stories. I suppose she must have gone to them herself.

by SEXY MAMA Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:38 pm

Raggamuffin wrote:
SEXY MAMA wrote:

Highly unlikely........

Why? I don't think children care that much where they go on holiday. It says one of the kids got upset, but I expect she got over it.

Even if she selfish, does it matter? People have this very idealised view of how families should behave, but this is the real world.

I just wonder how the press gets hold of these stories. I suppose she must have gone to them herself.

Now that is sure bet. Wink

by Raggamuffin Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:39 pm

SEXY MAMA wrote:
Raggamuffin wrote:

Why? I don't think children care that much where they go on holiday. It says one of the kids got upset, but I expect she got over it.

Even if she selfish, does it matter? People have this very idealised view of how families should behave, but this is the real world.

I just wonder how the press gets hold of these stories. I suppose she must have gone to them herself.

Now that is sure bet.

It's not much of a story - they must have short of news. Laughing

by Fuzzy Zack Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:40 pm

I know a lot of tired mothers who would love to do that. I think they should. Esp. When kids are young and need more care. Taking a break can re motivate you.

But then she may a 'resentful wife' who needs to get away from her husband.

by SEXY MAMA Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:43 pm

Fuzzy Zack wrote:I know a lot of tired mothers who would love to do that. I think they should. Esp. When kids are young and need more care. Taking a break can re motivate you.

But then she may a 'resentful wife' who needs to get away from her husband.

Sure going for a spa or a girly night is fine but not on a luxury holiday when you are not taking your kids with you, see that's my problem here.

by Raggamuffin Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:45 pm

SEXY MAMA wrote:
Fuzzy Zack wrote:I know a lot of tired mothers who would love to do that. I think they should. Esp. When kids are young and need more care. Taking a break can re motivate you.

But then she may a 'resentful wife' who needs to get away from her husband.

Sure going for a spa or a girly night is fine but not on a luxury holiday when you are not taking your kids with you, see that's my problem here.

I don't think you could go to Bora Bora for a day though. Razz

by Fuzzy Zack Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:48 pm

SEXY MAMA wrote:
Fuzzy Zack wrote:I know a lot of tired mothers who would love to do that. I think they should. Esp. When kids are young and need more care. Taking a break can re motivate you.

But then she may a 'resentful wife' who needs to get away from her husband.

Sure going for a spa or a girly night is fine but not on a luxury holiday when you are not taking your kids with you, see that's my problem here.

Maybe not a luxury holiday but getting away for a few days is good.

You need more than a day spa and a girly night out (which also takes energy).

But I don't care. The daal and chawal doesn't make itself. Laughing

by SEXY MAMA Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:53 pm

Fuzzy Zack wrote:
SEXY MAMA wrote:

Sure going for a spa or a girly night is fine but not on a luxury holiday when you are not taking your kids with you, see that's my problem here.

Maybe not a luxury holiday but getting away for a few days is good.

You need more than a day spa and a girly night out (which also takes energy).

But I don't care. The daal and chawal doesn't make itself.

Hence why you are still a bechara........ Wink

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