To Ben from Shady.

by Guest Wed Jul 02, 2014 8:29 pm

First topic message reminder :

Good evening Ben.

First of all the niceties.How are your knees? Well I hope.

Ben,not that it bothers me,because I hardly post here or on Inaflap anymore but.....having read through all this garbage about hacking between Flap & this site I can tell you what will happen next.

This site will go the same way...It will crash & burn.

Unfortunately Ben,it's what always happens because the same old names are in the thick of it.Same old names.Same old routine.Same old thing.

Shame really but that's how it is.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:48 pm

Sassy wrote:
Joy Division wrote:Well forumotion have suspended Dean's chit-chat section, and they wouldn't do that for no reason.

Has anyone any evidence that the hacking did not take place?...no, didn't think so.

It seems those none too fond of you are circling like vulchars Sassy and apparently they are really upset by this by way of hounding you on the issue, even though it has nothing whatsoever to do with them..

An opportunity to stick the knife in and turn it.

They haven't suspended it, they have deleted after being given the evidence.

...correction on my part then, that would t have happened without evidence of wrongdoing.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:50 pm

Joy Division wrote:Well forumotion have suspended Dean's chit-chat section, and they wouldn't do that for no reason.

Has anyone any evidence that the hacking did not take place?...no, didn't think so.

It seems those none too fond of you are circling like vulchars Sassy and apparently they are really upset by this by way of hounding you on the issue, even though it has nothing whatsoever to do with them..

An opportunity to stick the knife in and turn it.

that is called covering their arses to save them any problems if it was found out there was any case of hacking, seriously can you not even see that?
Why delete evidence?

This is about this forum being ruined by some dragging up the same old feuds they have with people, where someone us just want to debate and not have it ruined by this incessant bullshit daily about people on forums who they do not know from Adam!
The reality is people are getting fed up of this bullshit being posted here daily, if they have made claims, good luck to them, take it outside the forum and allow the rest of us to have fun here, as it is spoiling our time here and hence why I have had enough of all this bullshit to speak out as I am now!!

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:51 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Sassy wrote:

They haven't suspended it, they have deleted after being given the evidence.

...correction on my part then, that would t have happened without evidence of wrongdoing.

And they did tell me it was an action they had never had to take before! Once they had the evidence of the screen shots, that was it. I believe they have taken the section and moved it to their records.

by Lone Wolf Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:52 pm

Didge wrote:How do you change your IP address, I have no idea or have a need to do so?
I thought you were clueless on IT?

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I can't understand why so many people on here have been wetting themselves so profusely and "getting their knickers in a knot" over the last two days, concerning l'il old IP addresses.

It's not like they give away your actual physical location ~ but rather when you check them on a compatible online map, they simply show where the closest ISP connection "node" they can locate you on is located..

That's why simply looking up my IP address often shows that "node" as being some 120+ kms away from where I actually am ! (Much like when eddie, I think it was, looked at hers and it placed her in the middle of the River Thames..).

That's why "hackers" and "crackers" need a couple of other things besides just one's IP address..

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:54 pm

Didge wrote:
Joy Division wrote:Well forumotion have suspended Dean's chit-chat section, and they wouldn't do that for no reason.

Has anyone any evidence that the hacking did not take place?...no, didn't think so.

It seems those none too fond of you are circling like vulchars Sassy and apparently they are really upset by this by way of hounding you on the issue, even though it has nothing whatsoever to do with them..

An opportunity to stick the knife in and turn it.

that is called covering their arses to save them any problems if it was found out there was any case of hacking, seriously can you not even see that?
Why delete evidence?

This is about this forum being ruined by some dragging up the same old feuds they have with people, where someone us just want to debate and not have it ruined by this incessant bullshit daily about people on forums who they do not know from Adam!
The reality is people are getting fed up of this bullshit being posted here daily, if they have made claims, good luck to them, take it outside the forum and allow the rest of us to have fun here, as it is spoiling our time here and hence why I have had enough of all this bullshit to speak out as I am now!!

Sassy has been trying to do just that Didge, but Eddie is constantly questioning her, scrutinising every word she says , claiming nobody on Flap would ever do that...

How can she get peace to move on from it here if it's always brought up and she is being constantly questioned?

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:55 pm

Lone Wolf wrote:
Didge wrote:How do you change your IP address, I have no idea or have a need to do so?
I thought you were clueless on IT?

................................................

I can't understand why so many people on here have been wetting themselves so profusely and "getting their knickers in a knot" over the last two days, concerning l'il old IP addresses.

It's not like they give away your actual physical location ~ but rather when you check them on a compatible online map, they simply show where the closest ISP connection "node" they can locate you on is located..

That's why simply looking up my IP address often shows that "node" as being some 120+ kms away from where I actually am ! (Much like when eddie, I think it was, looked at hers and it placed her in the middle of the River Thames..).

That's also why "hackers" and "crackers" need a couple of other things besides just your IP address..

The point is Bee, this is all just silly old feuds, which to me spoils the forum, most of us do not really care, but care about the fact Ben keeps getting flak because of them

Hey ho mate, we still have Tommy to look forward to on his biological evidence.

::D::

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:56 pm

Well, I won't be answering anymore. Forumotion are dealing with it very well, if people have any more questions they will have to have them. Tough.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:57 pm

Sassy wrote:
Joy Division wrote:

...correction on my part then, that would t have happened without evidence of wrongdoing.

And they did tell me it was an action they had never had to take before! Once they had the evidence of the screen shots, that was it. I believe they have taken the section and moved it to their records.

That sound quite rare to have never had this before for them, but I guess not that many people will stoop as low as to hack PM's on forums...

Yes , I'd imagine those shots will be saved and logged by Forumotion Sass.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 1:57 pm

Sassy wrote:Well, I won't be answering anymore. Forumotion and dealing with it very well, if people have any more questions they will have to have them. Tough.

Well its obvious they bought you off with deleting the evidence.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:01 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

that is called covering their arses to save them any problems if it was found out there was any case of hacking, seriously can you not even see that?
Why delete evidence?

This is about this forum being ruined by some dragging up the same old feuds they have with people, where someone us just want to debate and not have it ruined by this incessant bullshit daily about people on forums who they do not know from Adam!
The reality is people are getting fed up of this bullshit being posted here daily, if they have made claims, good luck to them, take it outside the forum and allow the rest of us to have fun here, as it is spoiling our time here and hence why I have had enough of all this bullshit to speak out as I am now!!

Sassy has been trying to do just that Didge, but Eddie is constantly questioning her, scrutinising every word she says , claiming nobody on Flap would ever do that...

How can she get peace to move on from it here if it's always brought up and she is being constantly questioned?

Eddie has every right to question, just as you are doing now, so stop contradicting yourself.

This whole accusation to me is bullshit and makes me wonder if it was a set up in the first place to get back at being caught out by the mythical room 101!
The reality is sassy does keep contradicting herself and if she really wants peace, then she will stop posting about it, where as seen in fact she keeps going on about it!
That again shows she wants people to see her as a victim and play off this when there is no evidence as yet to even show she has been a victim here.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:02 pm

Didge wrote:
Lone Wolf wrote:

I can't understand why so many people on here have been wetting themselves so profusely and "getting their knickers in a knot" over the last two days, concerning l'il old IP addresses.

It's not like they give away your actual physical location ~ but rather when you check them on a compatible online map, they simply show where the closest ISP connection "node" they can locate you on is located..

That's why simply looking up my IP address often shows that "node" as being some 120+ kms away from where I actually am ! (Much like when eddie, I think it was, looked at hers and it placed her in the middle of the River Thames..).

That's also why "hackers" and "crackers" need a couple of other things besides just your IP address..

The point is Bee, this is all just silly old feuds, which to me spoils the forum, most of us do not really care, but care about the fact Ben keeps getting flak because of them

Hey ho mate, we still have Tommy to look forward to on his biological evidence.

::D::

Well, as the PM hacking involved PM"s from THIS forum, it's a bit inevitable that it's going to involve this place in some way isn't it?

And as Sassy wasn't a member over at Flap when this came to light , then what is she supposed to do?..just sit and stay quiet ?

I'm sure Dodge of you had reason to believe you account was hacked you would be a tad pissed off.

And nobody has evidence to suggest the hacking didn't go on.

And finally...if people give Sassy some breathing space and stop all the bullshit questions and interrogating ,then maybe Sassy can just push ahead with debating again here...

Sassy hasn't asked for any interrogation so maybe you should turn your attention to those doing the interrogating?

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:07 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

The point is Bee, this is all just silly old feuds, which to me spoils the forum, most of us do not really care, but care about the fact Ben keeps getting flak because of them

Hey ho mate, we still have Tommy to look forward to on his biological evidence.

::D::

Well, as the PM hacking involved PM"s from THIS forum, it's a bit inevitable that it's going to involve this place in some way isn't it?
No evidence it was hacked.

And as Sassy wasn't a member over at Flap when this came to light , then what is she supposed to do?..just sit and stay quiet ?
She could have actually created this, hence why you can never rule anything out when people are so vindictive

I'm sure Dodge of you had reason to believe you account was hacked you would be a tad pissed off.
There is no evidence any account was hacked Joy, see I can spell your name and not act like a child like you will miss spelling mine, you need to grow up

And nobody has evidence to suggest the hacking didn't go on.
Exactly, there is no evidence for anything, hence only Hugh can provide the answers, and he has legged it

And finally...if people give Sassy some breathing space and stop all the bullshit questions and interrogating ,then maybe Sassy can just push ahead with debating again here...

Sassy hasn't asked for any interrogation so maybe you should turn your attention to those doing the interrogating?

Yes she has, she has constantly dragged up this shit here for everyone, to gain sympathy, which makes me very suspicious!

Time people got over these utterly childish games and moved on and be adult for a change, hence why if they continue, I will continue to rip apart their bullshit

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:08 pm

Didge wrote:
Joy Division wrote:

Sassy has been trying to do just that Didge, but Eddie is constantly questioning her, scrutinising every word she says , claiming nobody on Flap would ever do that...

How can she get peace to move on from it here if it's always brought up and she is being constantly questioned?

Eddie has every right to question, just as you are doing now, so stop contradicting yourself.

This whole accusation to me is bullshit and makes me wonder if it was a set up in the first place to get back at being caught out by the mythical room 101!
The reality is sassy does keep contradicting herself and if she really wants peace, then she will stop posting about it, where as seen in fact she keeps going on about it!
That again shows she wants people to see her as a victim and play off this when there is no evidence as yet to even show she has been a victim here.

No...Sassy logged on to find more ridiculous questions from Eddie, who just can't seem to let it go,

Now, it's none of my business,yours..or Eddies , but is constantly being interrogated by Eddie, that annoys me, nobody has any business hounding Sassy with questions like that...

I'm only involving myself because I'm pissed off seeing a victim hassled and hounded like this.

I told you Didge, have a word with your mate if you genuinely so desire peace , because Sassy never asked for any if this crap, hacking, interrogating , the lot.

And until this bullshit following here around stops, then she's not getting the space to push on with debating here.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:11 pm

Don't worry Joy, I am, because they can ask and ponder and question and come up with all the ludicrous conspiracies they like, this is my last post on the subject.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:12 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

Eddie has every right to question, just as you are doing now, so stop contradicting yourself.

This whole accusation to me is bullshit and makes me wonder if it was a set up in the first place to get back at being caught out by the mythical room 101!
The reality is sassy does keep contradicting herself and if she really wants peace, then she will stop posting about it, where as seen in fact she keeps going on about it!
That again shows she wants people to see her as a victim and play off this when there is no evidence as yet to even show she has been a victim here.

No...Sassy logged on to find more ridiculous questions from Eddie, who just can't seem to let it go,
They are valid questions when sassy keeps dragging shit up that is on another forum

Now, it's none of my business,yours..or Eddies , but is constantly being interrogated by Eddie, that annoys me, nobody has any business hounding Sassy with questions like that...
It is everyones business when people post this crap on this forum,

I'm only involving myself because I'm pissed off seeing a victim hassled and hounded like this.
Yes you just contradicted yourself showing your lack of intelligence again

I told you Didge, have a word with your mate if you genuinely so desire peace , because Sassy never asked for any if this crap, hacking, interrogating , the lot.
Nothing to do with peace, as have nothing against anyone, I have an issue with people who disrupt the forum, with crap like these accusations

And until this bullshit following here around stops, then she's not getting the space to push on with debating here.

No she stops full stop and deals with forumotion, because none of actually buy any of the bullshit victim status! There is no need to keep dragging this bullshit onto here, allow others to debate

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:13 pm

Sassy wrote:Don't worry Joy, I am, because they can ask and ponder and question and come up with all the ludicrous conspiracies they like, this is my last post on the subject.

Funny that, because your claim is a conspiracy in itself!

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:13 pm

Didge wrote:
Joy Division wrote:

Well, as the PM hacking involved PM"s from THIS forum, it's a bit inevitable that it's going to involve this place in some way isn't it?
No evidence it was hacked.

And as Sassy wasn't a member over at Flap when this came to light , then what is she supposed to do?..just sit and stay quiet ?
She could have actually created this, hence why you can never rule anything out when people are so vindictive

I'm sure Dodge of you had reason to believe you account was hacked you would be a tad pissed off.
There is no evidence any account was hacked Joy, see I can spell your name and not act like a child like you will miss spelling mine, you need to grow up

And nobody has evidence to suggest the hacking didn't go on.
Exactly, there is no evidence for anything, hence only Hugh can provide the answers, and he has legged it

And finally...if people give Sassy some breathing space and stop all the bullshit questions and interrogating ,then maybe Sassy can just push ahead with debating again here...

Sassy hasn't asked for any interrogation so maybe you should turn your attention to those doing the interrogating?

Yes she has, she has constantly dragged up this shit here for everyone, to gain sympathy, which makes me very suspicious!

Time people got over these utterly childish games and moved on and be adult for a change, hence why if they continue, I will continue to rip apart their bullshit

By questioning Sassy like this and mocking her ' being the victim', your just adding to this though aren't you? It's not up to you to have the evidence, that is for Sassy and HA, that does not concern us, so for you to try to squeal there is no evidence is most childish and ridiculous...unless of course your hinting that Sassy should show you that evidence for your own delight?

Now, you said you were going five minutes ago, so what's keeping you Didge?

I do hope your intentions are not to further hound and hassle Sassy?

Let it be, enough.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:15 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

Yes she has, she has constantly dragged up this shit here for everyone, to gain sympathy, which makes me very suspicious!

Time people got over these utterly childish games and moved on and be adult for a change, hence why if they continue, I will continue to rip apart their bullshit

By questioning Sassy like this and mocking her ' being the victim', your just adding to this though aren't you? It's not up to you to have the evidence, that is for Sassy and HA, that does not concern us, so for you to try to squeal there is no evidence is most childish and ridiculous...unless of course your hinting that Sassy should show you that evidence for your own delight?

Now, you said you were going five minutes ago, so what's keeping you Didge?

I do hope your intentions are not to further hound and hassle Sassy?

Let it be, enough.

I have never said I am going and I will continue to hound idiots that spoil this forum and untill you learn I will continue, so take your fake conspiracies else where, it is that simple.
Sassy is the bone hounding the forum with fake bullshit, even forumotuon think so by deleting the evidence.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:31 pm

Really, is that so, I stopped posting about it, Eddie and Nems brought up question again. So learn to read, and Forumotion are keeping me up to date with everything, which I am not passing on to you. If you don't like it, I don't give a stuff.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:33 pm

Funny you are still posting about it now, yet another lie!

Yes forumotion are buying you off, because as seen there is no evidence for them to go off of, except some PM's by one poster who is not around

When someone says they will stop, it mean they will stop!

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:34 pm

Yes, funny how you never learnt that.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:35 pm

Sassy wrote:Yes, funny how you never learnt that.

Clearly I have learnt you keep contradicting yourself, again the choice is yours, move on so we can have some peace to this forum and stop spoiling it for others

Thank you

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:38 pm

Are you going to tell me to have anal sex to calm me down as you did someone else on Speak? :aspukeas:

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:41 pm

Sassy wrote:Are you going to tell me to have anal sex to calm me down as you did someone else on Speak? :aspukeas:

If it helps then by all means take it up our dirt box.

Well at least I now have evidence Irn has spoken to you about our private conversation and that the is not fit to be impartial passing on information, so thanks for that sassy. It proves my point how you collude with others, which makes me wonder that you set this whole PM thing up in the first place to poorly try to bring down Inaflap

Really happy you made that gaff

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:42 pm

Didge wrote:
Sassy wrote:Are you going to tell me to have anal sex to calm me down as you did someone else on Speak? :aspukeas:

If it helps then by all means take it up our dirt box.

Well at least I now have evidence Irn has spoken to you about our private conversation and that the is not fit to be impartial passing on information, so thanks for that sassy. It proves my point how you collude with others, which makes me wonder that you set this whole PM thing up in the first place to poorly try to bring down Inaflap

Really happy you made that gaff

Er, no, you said that on open forum to Nems, you might not remember because you say so many disgusting things, but many other people do.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:44 pm

Sassy wrote:
Didge wrote:

If it helps then by all means take it up our dirt box.

Well at least I now have evidence Irn has spoken to you about our private conversation and that the is not fit to be impartial passing on information, so thanks for that sassy. It proves my point how you collude with others, which makes me wonder that you set this whole PM thing up in the first place to poorly try to bring down Inaflap

Really happy you made that gaff

Er, no, you said that on open forum to Nems, you might not remember because you say so many disgusting things, but many other people do.

Er no you are caught out as it was brought up privately by Irn the other day on PM's to me, so thanks for exposing yourself.

Anyway what is wrong with anal sex, are you now homophobic?

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:49 pm

No, it was on OPEN FORUM and it is why Victor banned you. Ask him.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:51 pm

Didge wrote:
Sassy wrote:

Er, no, you said that on open forum to Nems, you might not remember because you say so many disgusting things, but many other people do.

Er no you are caught out as it was brought up privately by Irn the other day on PM's to me, so thanks for exposing yourself.

Anyway what is wrong with anal sex, are you now homophobic?

I was talking about what you said on OPEN FORUM. And after it I lost any respect for you and you just disgusted me, so you can twist as much as you like, I was talking about what you said ON OPEN FORUM AND WHY YOU WERE BANNED.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:52 pm

Sassy wrote:No, it was on OPEN FORUM and it is why Victor banned you. Ask him.

You mean after you banned me twice before after you insulted my father, after me objecting to this?

So what you are saying is Victor must be homophobic (I doubt it) and think there is something wrong with anal sex, is that your claim?

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:54 pm

Sassy wrote:
Didge wrote:

Er no you are caught out as it was brought up privately by Irn the other day on PM's to me, so thanks for exposing yourself.

Anyway what is wrong with anal sex, are you now homophobic?

I was talking about what you said on OPEN FORUM. And after it I lost any respect for you and you just disgusted me, so you can twist as much as you like, I was talking about what you said ON OPEN FORUM AND WHY YOU WERE BANNED.

So you lost any respect for me after you insulted my late father, which you have never apologised for and after I was asked if I had anal sex with my wife and which i replied in kind to Nems on.
So what is wrong with anal sex?

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:56 pm

Didge, even if someone doesn't like the idea of anal sex, it does to make them homophobic, that's just absurd.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:57 pm

Joy Division wrote:Didge, even if someone doesn't like the idea of anal sex, it does to make them homophobic, that's just absurd.

Agreed, but sassy says it disgusts her, why cannot I defend enjoying anal sex with my wife?

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:58 pm

Didge wrote:
Joy Division wrote:Didge, even if someone doesn't like the idea of anal sex, it does to make them homophobic, that's just absurd.

Agreed, but sassy says it disgusts her, why cannot I defend enjoying anal sex with my wife?

Well , it's each to their own on that score!

I feel a bit embarrassed talking about it tbh! Laughing

by Andy Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:00 pm

Why would Sassy or I want to close flop, although I wouldn't weep if it did.
I have said before and will repeat it, far better to keep the extremists, racists, anti Muslim brigade, Breivik lovers and fruit loops all in one nuthouse that forumotion can keep an eye on.
If they don't bother me, I wont bother them.
Hugh and Dean started the pm scandal, didn't realise Sassy and I would bite back so fiercely, and probably are regretting their actions.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:00 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

Agreed, but sassy says it disgusts her, why cannot I defend enjoying anal sex with my wife?

Well , it's each to their own on that score!

I feel a bit embarrassed talking about it tbh!

The point is Joy, all I said to Nems, was crude, I said did she enjoy it up her dirt box, poor I admit inbterminology, but there is nothing wrong with enjoying anal sex and as seen I was banned because anal sex is disgusting it seems!

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:01 pm

Didge wrote:
Joy Division wrote:Didge, even if someone doesn't like the idea of anal sex, it does to make them homophobic, that's just absurd.

Agreed, but sassy says it disgusts her, why cannot I defend enjoying anal sex with my wife?

I didn't say is disgusts me, I said it disgusts me that you told a woman on OPEN FORUM to have it to calm herself down. What you do with you wife is your own concern.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:03 pm

Didge wrote:
Joy Division wrote:

Well , it's each to their own on that score!

I feel a bit embarrassed talking about it tbh!

The point is Joy, all I said to Nems, was crude, I said did she enjoy it up her dirt box, poor I admit inbterminology, but there is nothing wrong with enjoying anal sex and as seen I was banned because anal sex is disgusting it seems!

No, you were banned from telling a woman to go and have anal sex as a way of putting her down and being extremely crude and vulgar.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:04 pm

Didge wrote:
Joy Division wrote:

Well , it's each to their own on that score!

I feel a bit embarrassed talking about it tbh!

The point is Joy, all I said to Nems, was crude, I said did she enjoy it up her dirt box, poor I admit inbterminology, but there is nothing wrong with enjoying anal sex and as seen I was banned because anal sex is disgusting it seems!

I hear what your saying Didge(very eloquently worded Laughing

) but I think Sassy has a point too in that it would have been better in PM!>>>blush blush

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:04 pm

Sassy wrote:
Didge wrote:

Agreed, but sassy says it disgusts her, why cannot I defend enjoying anal sex with my wife?

I didn't say is disgusts me, I said it disgusts me that you told a woman on OPEN FORUM to have it to calm herself down. What you do with you wife is your own concern.

Which means you find anal sex disgusting, as again what is wrong with anal sex or to even discuss anal sex on an open forum?

My wife finds it relaxes her and she loves it, what is so wrong with asking another posted that if they are tense?

So to ask another woman about anal sex, is to you disgusting to talk about anal sex

Eilzel, what do you think about talking about anal sex mate, is it wrong to do so?

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:05 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

The point is Joy, all I said to Nems, was crude, I said did she enjoy it up her dirt box, poor I admit inbterminology, but there is nothing wrong with enjoying anal sex and as seen I was banned because anal sex is disgusting it seems!

I hear what your saying Didge(very eloquently worded ) but I think Sassy has a point too in that it would have been better in PM!>>>blush blush

Why?

What is wrong in talking about sex, unless people are prunes?

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:06 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

The point is Joy, all I said to Nems, was crude, I said did she enjoy it up her dirt box, poor I admit inbterminology, but there is nothing wrong with enjoying anal sex and as seen I was banned because anal sex is disgusting it seems!

I hear what your saying Didge(very eloquently worded ) but I think Sassy has a point too in that it would have been better in PM!>>>blush blush

He wouldn't have put it in a pm, because he was being deliberately crude and revolting to try and put her down and score a point. It backfired.

He was not using it in a discussion about sex, he was using it as a put down.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:07 pm

I think to go into detail about it on an open forum is a bit off Didge, just because other members might not want to read that...

But it's up to you what you and wife like or do Smile

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:07 pm

Sassy wrote:
Joy Division wrote:

I hear what your saying Didge(very eloquently worded ) but I think Sassy has a point too in that it would have been better in PM!>>>blush blush

He wouldn't have put it in a pm, because he was being deliberately crude and revolting to try and put her down and score a point. It backfired.

So anal sex is crude now, interesting, you really seem a right prune, have you ever even tried it?

All i am seeing is you find anal sex disgusting and it is wrong to even talk about it openly.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:08 pm

Sassy wrote:
Joy Division wrote:

I hear what your saying Didge(very eloquently worded ) but I think Sassy has a point too in that it would have been better in PM!>>>blush blush

He wouldn't have put it in a pm, because he was being deliberately crude and revolting to try and put her down and score a point. It backfired.

He was not using it in a discussion about sex, he was using it as a put down.

To be fair Sassy, I don't think I was even logged on that night

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:09 pm

Joy Division wrote:I think to go into detail about it on an open forum is a bit off Didge, just because other members might not want to read that...

But it's up to you what you and wife like or do

Again why is it a bit off, unless you feel uncomfortable about talking about sex, this is not the 1950's you know Joy

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:10 pm

When it is used to try and say that someone has a mental problem because they don't have it, and it is used as a way of undermining them, that is the problem, not the sex.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:10 pm

Didge wrote:
Sassy wrote:

He wouldn't have put it in a pm, because he was being deliberately crude and revolting to try and put her down and score a point. It backfired.

So anal sex is crude now, interesting, you really seem a right prune, have you ever even tried it?

All i am seeing is you find anal sex disgusting and it is wrong to even talk about it openly.

Didge , you can't ask a woman that for real and not expect them or others not to be offended man !

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:10 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

So anal sex is crude now, interesting, you really seem a right prune, have you ever even tried it?

All i am seeing is you find anal sex disgusting and it is wrong to even talk about it openly.

Didge , you can't ask a woman that for real and not expect them or others not to be offended man !

He said it to offend, that was the whole point.

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:12 pm

Didge wrote:
Joy Division wrote:I think to go into detail about it on an open forum is a bit off Didge, just because other members might not want to read that...

But it's up to you what you and wife like or do

Again why is it a bit off, unless you feel uncomfortable about talking about sex, this is not the 1950's you know Joy

I know what your saying Didge, but some people are uncomfortable with that kind of sex or even detailed talk of it!

We've discussed before folk' s personal likes and dislikes and how we are all different!

by Guest Sun Jul 06, 2014 3:12 pm

Joy Division wrote:
Didge wrote:

So anal sex is crude now, interesting, you really seem a right prune, have you ever even tried it?

All i am seeing is you find anal sex disgusting and it is wrong to even talk about it openly.

Didge , you can't ask a woman that for real and not expect them or others not to be offended man !

Really? I have asked others and were fine with it, all it shows is that people who have not engaged in this would find it awkward.

What you are saying is that anal sex is bad then, to say people will be offended by it, are you saying it would be wrong to talk about oral sex, when many posters here make joke reference to this, or posters going on about having a big cock, these are all fun, but for some reason, anal sex is a taboo?
Maybe in the 1950's joy, but not today

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