Man's 'shame' at partner finding him 'disgusting' after asking her to wee on him

Urophilia, undinism, golden shower, watersports - 'urine play' goes by many names.

While it's defined as a fetish , it's nonetheless something which a number of people engage in and enjoy.

Unfortunately for one man, his attempt to spice things up in the bedroom via some urine play has backfired.

"Recently, I became interested in getting my partner to urinate on me," he admitted to Pamela Stephenson Connolly in a letter featured on the Guardian. "I've never tried it before and I don't know why I'm suddenly keen now, but I'm curious about what it's like and I think it would make us feel closer."
On this occasion, it's had quite the opposite effect.

He adds: "Now my partner thinks I'm disgusting. I feel hurt and ashamed for sharing my fantasy with her. We've been together a few years, but I'm struggling with these negative feelings."

In response, Pamela reassures the unnamed man, saying: "You do not have to feel ashamed of your fantasies. You can safely enjoy them while they are private to you."

However, she also issues a warning, adding: "But, as you have discovered, you must be cautious about sharing them – especially if they involve eroticism that may be considered edgy or unusual."

Vintage wrote:Hitler apparently liked to be peed on  and er - defecated on.

eddie wrote:

Vintage wrote:Hitler apparently liked to be peed on  and er - defecated on.

Go figure.

Andy wrote:

eddie wrote:

Go figure.

That could be why he has a couple of admirers on here.