A call for respect and civility

eddie wrote:And just to add, some of us have a hell of a lot of other big stuff going on in the real world and that admin team aren't infallible.

Well said Ben
I appreciate it x

But where's the cowboy dance to back up your post? Means nothing without a dance my friend.

eddie wrote:Oh and for the record, can everyone stop assuming that is dislike certain posters, ie sassy?

I always answer posts and not posters.
That will be seen by my record of posting on here and everywhere.

Ben_Reilly wrote:Everybody should be aware that the nature of being an admin is that people read way more into everything you do than you ever intended. Admins have to get to the point that they take this fact into consideration every single time they post something.

Or, they can be like me and just stop giving a shit about it ...

Ben_Reilly wrote:Did somebody lock this? VOD was saying it's locked.

eddie wrote:

Ben_Reilly wrote:Did somebody lock this? VOD was saying it's locked.

Nope. Maybe she needs to go to specsavers

Ben_Reilly wrote:Everybody should be aware that the nature of being an admin is that people read way more into everything you do than you ever intended. Admins have to get to the point that they take this fact into consideration every single time they post something.

Or, they can be like me and just stop giving a shit about it ...

Nems wrote:

Ben_Reilly wrote:Everybody should be aware that the nature of being an admin is that people read way more into everything you do than you ever intended. Admins have to get to the point that they take this fact into consideration every single time they post something.

Or, they can be like me and just stop giving a shit about it ...

Why did you lock the other thread then?

korban dallas wrote:

Nems wrote:

Why did you lock the other thread then?

funny you didn`t catch what happened nems it was at the top of the scroll list most of last night and this morning and you where on line last night during it then again this morning i know i checked
how very strange you usually jump all over posts that sassy contributes to  

Ben_Reilly wrote:Yes, yet again

Let me just say this, because I feel like I've said everything else at this point already -- everybody who's here clicked that "register" link, went through the sign-up thing, essentially asking to be part of this little community of ours.

Everybody here was welcomed in -- some with great enthusiasm and others admittedly with some misgivings -- but you're all here.

Your administration team wants you here and values your contributions. Please think of your fellow members as your neighbors -- you might not like them or get along with them, but you're not going to throw rocks through their windows or burn their houses down.

NewsFix is supposed to be a community, not a battlefield. Remember that the rest of us "live" here, too.

Thank you, thankyouverymuch.

Nems wrote:

korban dallas wrote:
funny you didn`t catch what happened nems it was at the top of the scroll list most of last night and this morning and you where on line last night during it then again this morning i know i checked
how very strange you usually jump all over posts that sassy contributes to  

Why were you checking on me?
Just because I show online doesn't mean Im reading. Believe you me If I had seen that carry on last night I would have had plenty to say.
Bloody disgraceful and as usual its been locked after the event.
Anyway as I understand it you were the first to view said video and didn't raise any complaints at the time?

korban dallas wrote:

Nems wrote:


Why were you checking on me?
Just because I show online doesn't mean Im reading. Believe you me If I had seen that carry on last night I would have had plenty to say.
Bloody disgraceful and as usual its been locked after the event.
Anyway as I understand it you were the first to view said video and didn't raise any complaints at the time?

wow its a tag team today ,as you understand it? ....but you just asked what it was all about and i did not elaborate so just what do you understand nems  ?? this is very confusing you talk as if you know what its all about yet claim not too

korban dallas wrote:

Nems wrote:


Why were you checking on me?
Just because I show online doesn't mean Im reading. Believe you me If I had seen that carry on last night I would have had plenty to say.
Bloody disgraceful and as usual its been locked after the event.
Anyway as I understand it you were the first to view said video and didn't raise any complaints at the time?

wow its a tag team today ,as you understand it? ....but you just asked what it was all about and i did not elaborate so just what do you understand nems  ?? this is very confusing you talk as if you know what its all about yet claim not too

korban dallas wrote:
wow its a tag team today ,as you understand it? ....but you just asked what it was all about and i did not elaborate so just what do you understand nems  ?? this is very confusing you talk as if you know what its all about yet claim not too

Nems wrote:

korban dallas wrote:
wow its a tag team today ,as you understand it? ....but you just asked what it was all about and i did not elaborate so just what do you understand nems  ?? this is very confusing you talk as if you know what its all about yet claim not too

Tag teaming ?!
What I saw was a shed load of abuse slung at Eddie including you
I saw Eddies post saying you saw this video first yet didn't complain so I presume you were bandwagoning?
So what was in the video that caused a shit fest? What caused you to be so vile to Eddie?
I have seen the whole thing on Inaflap now anyway and cant see what the moaning was about?
Other than the fact that some are hypocrites and some wont be happy as long as their arse faces the ground

Nems wrote:

Why dont you go home and count your kids?

Lucifer Angel of Light wrote:

Nems wrote:

Why dont you go home and count your kids?

Why would I need to count them Nems, I know how many I have, maybe you need to count how much love you have in your life?
Zero?

Nems wrote:

Lucifer Angel of Light wrote:


Why would I need to count them Nems, I know how many I have, maybe you need to count how much love you have in your life?
Zero?

Have you decided on a number?!
What a relief

Lucifer Angel of Light wrote:

Nems wrote:

Have you decided on a number?!
What a relief

To have more?

Not really thoought about this to be honest.

You just relieved yourself?
Blimey, I would get that checked out, if I was you.

Nems wrote:

Lucifer Angel of Light wrote:

To have more?

Not really thoought about this to be honest.

You just relieved yourself?
Blimey, I would get that checked out, if I was you.

How pathetic you are Didge

Epic fail jog on loser I win you lose
Bye Didge you get to this point you are just boring.

Nems wrote:

korban dallas wrote:
funny you didn`t catch what happened nems it was at the top of the scroll list most of last night and this morning and you where on line last night during it then again this morning i know i checked
how very strange you usually jump all over posts that sassy contributes to  

Why were you checking on me?
Just because I show online doesn't mean Im reading. Believe you me If I had seen that carry on last night I would have had plenty to say.
Bloody disgraceful and as usual its been locked after the event.
Anyway as I understand it you were the first to view said video and didn't raise any complaints at the time?

Original Quill wrote:

Nems wrote:


Why were you checking on me?
Just because I show online doesn't mean Im reading. Believe you me If I had seen that carry on last night I would have had plenty to say.
Bloody disgraceful and as usual its been locked after the event.
Anyway as I understand it you were the first to view said video and didn't raise any complaints at the time?

Why?  What happened last night?

Nems wrote:

Original Quill wrote:

Why?  What happened last night?

Eddie got treated like a piece of dirt
See the thread Sassy started about her
http://www.newsfixboard.com/t9552-ben-you-have-a-moderator-who-because-of-her-allegiance-to-another-site-refuses-to-do-her-job  

Original Quill wrote:

Nems wrote:

Eddie got treated like a piece of dirt
See the thread Sassy started about her
http://www.newsfixboard.com/t9552-ben-you-have-a-moderator-who-because-of-her-allegiance-to-another-site-refuses-to-do-her-job  

Yep, I thot it had to do with that.  What I don't understand is, if it was about an illegal video that was posted, and it was removed, what's the issue?  I'm in the dark on most things because I'm not a member of FLAP.  Sometimes I even see my name mentioned and I haven't the foggiest what it's all about.

nicko wrote:I didn't see the video so don't know what all the fuss is about.   What I do know is the nasty remarks made about the ladies on here are uncalled for.  To me it's like hitting a woman, it's not the thing a "gentleman " does.

nicko wrote:I didn't see the video so don't know what all the fuss is about.   What I do know is the nasty remarks made about the ladies on here are uncalled for.  To me it's like hitting a woman, it's not the thing a "gentleman " does.

Nems wrote:

Original Quill wrote:

Yep, I thot it had to do with that.  What I don't understand is, if it was about an illegal video that was posted, and it was removed, what's the issue?  I'm in the dark on most things because I'm not a member of FLAP.  Sometimes I even see my name mentioned and I haven't the foggiest what it's all about.

It wasn't illegal Quill it was election gains and losses. Including Sassys loss in the election for local counsellor. She lives her entire life on line then whines when something is posted she doesn't like. She has put her own name and image all over the internet and wasn't shy in trying to broadcast yours. Bottom line is if she had won she would have been plastering this site with her victory.

Original Quill wrote:

Nems wrote:

It wasn't illegal Quill it was election gains and losses. Including Sassys loss in the election for local counsellor. She lives her entire life on line then whines when something is posted she doesn't like. She has put her own name and image all over the internet and wasn't shy in trying to broadcast yours. Bottom line is if she had won she would have been plastering this site with her victory.

Well, as I said, I don't know anything about it.  Never saw the video.  Maybe I'll take another look today.

Original Quill wrote:

nicko wrote:I didn't see the video so don't know what all the fuss is about.   What I do know is the nasty remarks made about the ladies on here are uncalled for.  To me it's like hitting a woman, it's not the thing a "gentleman " does.

Well, respect is always appreciated.  But it is a website, not a gymnasium.  When it comes to intelligence and expression, women don't need chivalry.  

Original Quill wrote:

nicko wrote:I didn't see the video so don't know what all the fuss is about.   What I do know is the nasty remarks made about the ladies on here are uncalled for.  To me it's like hitting a woman, it's not the thing a "gentleman " does.

Well, respect is always appreciated.  But it is a website, not a gymnasium.  When it comes to intelligence and expression, women don't need chivalry.  

nicko wrote:Sassy is a brainwashed Labour drone,she hates the tories, she hates the Jews. So much hate about others.

Shady wrote:Sassy is no more a Labour counsel candidate than I am & she just makes it up as she goes along.This has all been another of her attention seeking ploys & those avatar images which were supposedly her,are of some poor woman who has no idea that she has been hijacked by a nutcase.

Poor old Sass is like Didge.....Just another online nutter screaming in the corner of her flea pit bedsit.

Raggamuffin wrote:

Shady wrote:Sassy is no more a Labour counsel candidate than I am & she just makes it up as she goes along.This has all been another of her attention seeking ploys & those avatar images which were supposedly her,are of some poor woman who has no idea that she has been hijacked by a nutcase.

Poor old Sass is like Didge.....Just another online nutter screaming in the corner of her flea pit bedsit.

Are you suggesting that Sassy has stolen someone's identity?

Nems wrote:

Original Quill wrote:

Well, respect is always appreciated.  But it is a website, not a gymnasium.  When it comes to intelligence and expression, women don't need chivalry.  

Ah well you see Nicko is what we would call old school.
He will have been raised to treat women with respect and to be chivalrous s.

Only speaking for myself but I like a bit of old school manners and a man who knows how to behave like a gentleman. So well done to Nicko

nicko wrote:Quill, you say "woman don't need chivalry"    I disagree, I was brought up in a different world to you,i suppose you don't open doors for them or offer a seat if they are standing.

Shady wrote:

Nems wrote:

Ah well you see Nicko is what we would call old school.
He will have been raised to treat women with respect and to be chivalrous s.

Only speaking for myself but I like a bit of old school manners and a man who knows how to behave like a gentleman. So well done to Nicko

I think I'm chivalrous........Have I spelt chivalrous correctly?

..Just checked.Yes I have.

Raggamuffin wrote:

nicko wrote:Quill, you say "woman don't need chivalry"    I disagree, I was brought up in a different world to you,i suppose you don't open doors for them or offer a seat if they are standing.

I think that's lovely nicko. Quill doesn't speak for women anyway.