Why I Left Speakfree Forum

[Guest]

First topic message reminder :

I left the very good speakfree because a moderator named "TheToryScum" deleted 2 threads where I labelled some convicted foreign criminals "scum".


He said the word was unnecessary and vulgar.

The second time he did it I immediately left - I felt there was nothing wrong with labelling such disgusting individuals scum and felt the reason he didn't like it was because they were foreign.

If you can't post the truth on a forum, what's the point? If you are challenged - nothing wrong with that, but moderators going behind your back changing posts and threads is just pointless.

Please discuss.

[Guest]

The trouble is when you say dont fire bullets it can be hard to know what phil is going to take as bullets.

I mean is anyone saying Ben has ever been anything but fair and reasonable to phil? Did he fire any bullets?

[Guest]

The thing will phil is I think a lot of people like him - rough edges and all, but he doesnt believe they do which is a crying shame

I dont. I think he is a hateful bastard who will never be happy as long as his arse faces the ground

[eddie]

The thing will phil is I think a lot of people like him - rough edges and all, but he doesnt believe they do which is a crying shame

I dont. I think he is a hateful bastard who will never be happy as long as his arse faces the ground

Soooo, you're not sending him a Christmas card this year then?

[Guest]

I dont. I think he is a hateful bastard who will never be happy as long as his arse faces the ground

Soooo, you're not sending him a Christmas card this year then?

Is it obvious?!

[Guest]

Phill took a lot of unwarranted abuse from the flappers as did I
So I knew how he felt and I always tried to be aware of that fact and give him some leeway
Being a Mod or indeed admin is a thankless task and even when you try to do the right thing you're wrong and upset one side or another
its a game you can`t win you can only do what you think best at the time as i always did

i still to this day like phill and would happily stand in his corner when i think he is right

[Guest]

Phill took a lot of unwarranted abuse from the flappers as did I
So I knew how he felt and I always tried to be aware of that fact and give him some leeway
Being a Mod or indeed admin is a thankless task and even when you try to do the right thing you're wrong and upset one side or another
its a game you can`t win you can only do what you think best at the time as i always did

i still to this day like phill  and would happily stand in his corner when i think he is right

Ditto.

The problem comes when I dont see things the same way as him.

By the way phil if you are reading this :astwinsas: come and say hello again soon.

[Original Quill]

Phil retaliates - usually with too much interest,  but if you don't fire bullets at him you wont get scud missiles back.
I have never had any grief from him, nor he from me.

It's not always that easy, HA. One thing written in granite is that Nems is a partner of mine. When Phil took out after her for no reason at all, I was like waaaa?? I mean...I like Phil and all, but not at the expense of other things.

[Guest]

He's not talented enough to be that important, but the explanation is that he said he never had a good thing to say about SpeakFree in another thread, so LD was showing him up for it

But why though?
Arent you aware of how much this pissing up the back yard wall is making this place so horrible.
Why is it so important to be right? Why would you sit and look through posts to bring something months old up ? Truly I dont get it.
I thought Lovedust was above that sort of thing. Also you need to make up your mind whether going on about other forums is acceptable or not. Your opinion seems to change according to who it is.

So why don’t you take your own advice and stop nit-picking through my posts at every opportunity and snapping at my heels with snide little remarks about what you say happened on Speakfree and move on?

And when Lovey told you why she bumped the thread, why didn't you accept it instead of saying the above and stirring it all up some more?

[Guest]

But why though?
Arent you aware of how much this pissing up the back yard wall is making this place so horrible.
Why is it so important to be right? Why would you sit and look through posts to bring something months old up ? Truly I dont get it.
I thought Lovedust was above that sort of thing. Also you need to make up your mind whether going on about other forums is acceptable or not. Your opinion seems to change according to who it is.

So why don’t you take your own advice and stop nit-picking through my posts at every opportunity and snapping at my heels with snide little remarks about what you say happened on Speakfree and move on?

And when Lovey told you why she bumped the thread, why didn't you accept it instead of saying the above and stirring it all up some more?

ME ME ME ME!!!!!!!!!!!!
GIVE ME ATTENTION ! ITS ALL ABOUT ME! I have to be the centre of any discussion! Any thing that ever happened anywhere is about me or there will be trouble!
The world according to Sassy.
It is about her or there will be trouble.     

[Guest]

Phill took a lot of unwarranted abuse from the flappers as did I
So I knew how he felt and I always tried to be aware of that fact and give him some leeway
Being a Mod or indeed admin is a thankless task and even when you try to do the right thing you're wrong and upset one side or another
its a game you can`t win you can only do what you think best at the time as i always did

i still to this day like phill  and would happily stand in his corner when i think he is right

Ditto.

The problem comes when I dont see things the same way as him.

By the way phil if you are reading this :astwinsas: come and say hello again soon.

On Sphinx ' forum please   

[Guest]

Phil retaliates - usually with too much interest,  but if you don't fire bullets at him you wont get scud missiles back.
I have never had any grief from him, nor he from me.

It's not always that easy, HA.  One thing written in granite is that Nems is a partner of mine.  When Phil took out after her for no reason at all, I was like waaaa??  I mean...I like Phil and all, but not at the expense of other things.

Thanks Quill xx
A gent as always

[Guest]

So why don’t you take your own advice and stop nit-picking through my posts at every opportunity and snapping at my heels with snide little remarks about what you say happened on Speakfree and move on?

And when Lovey told you why she bumped the thread, why didn't you accept it instead of saying the above and stirring it all up some more?

ME ME ME ME!!!!!!!!!!!!
GIVE ME ATTENTION ! ITS ALL ABOUT ME! I have to be the centre of any discussion! Any thing that ever happened anywhere is about me or there will be trouble!
The world according to Sassy.
It is about her or there will be trouble.     

Yes Nems, I know it's all about you, which is why you had to comment and stir about Lovey's post.

[Guest]

Like I said people need to move on from grudges, if grudges still persist, this is why you will continue to have problems here.

Point proven

[Guest]

Phil retaliates - usually with too much interest,  but if you don't fire bullets at him you wont get scud missiles back.
I have never had any grief from him, nor he from me.

It's not always that easy, HA.  One thing written in granite is that Nems is a partner of mine.  When Phil took out after her for no reason at all, I was like waaaa??  I mean...I like Phil and all, but not at the expense of other things.

Shit stirrers of the world unite. You'll be very happy together lol

[Guest]

Like I said people need to move on from grudges, if grudges still persist, this is why you will continue to have problems here.

Point proven

Yea yea yea Didge, it was proven the moment Nems opened her mouth after Lovey had told her why she bumped it.

[Guest]

ME ME ME ME!!!!!!!!!!!!
GIVE ME ATTENTION ! ITS ALL ABOUT ME! I have to be the centre of any discussion! Any thing that ever happened anywhere is about me or there will be trouble!
The world according to Sassy.
It is about her or there will be trouble.     

Yes Nems, I know it's all about you, which is why you had to comment and stir about Lovey's post.

You are so transparent   

[Guest]

Like I said people need to move on from grudges, if grudges still persist, this is why you will continue to have problems here.

Point proven

Yea yea yea Didge, it was proven the moment Nems opened her mouth after Lovey had told her why she bumped it.

I really do not care who is to blame, as far as I am concerned all who continue are.

If you ant problems to stop all must get past their grudges or rise above it.

[Guest]

Yes Nems, I know it's all about you, which is why you had to comment and stir about Lovey's post.

You are so transparent   

Says the person who just HAD to open her mouth and stir again and couldn't leave it after Lovey's answer.

[Guest]

Yea yea yea Didge, it was proven the moment Nems opened her mouth after Lovey had told her why she bumped it.

I really do not care who is to blame, as far as I am concerned all who continue are.

If you ant problems to stop all must get past their grudges or rise above it.

Didge, I don't have a grudge, I don't care enough to have a grudge and I wasn't the person to stir this up on purpose, Nems was, and the ones taking the flack for it are TTS and Lovey.   If she had done the impossible and kept her trap shut the last couple of pages wouldn't have happened.  So when I want your advise I'll ask for it OK?

[Guest]

I really do not care who is to blame, as far as I am concerned all who continue are.

If you ant problems to stop all must get past their grudges or rise above it.

Didge, I don't have a grudge, I don't care enough to have a grudge annd I wasn't the person to stir this up on purpose, Nems was, and the ones taking the flack for it are TTS and Lovey.   If she had done the impossible and kept her trap shut the last couple of pages wouldn't have happened.  So when I want your advise I'll ask for it OK?

But you are still going on about it are you not?

If you do not get involved, the thread would not continue, which is my point, so I am not taking sides, but saying people only have themselves to blame if they get involved, the same goes for Nems too.

Move on or rise above it.

Simple

[Guest]

Didge, I don't have a grudge, I don't care enough to have a grudge annd I wasn't the person to stir this up on purpose, Nems was, and the ones taking the flack for it are TTS and Lovey.   If she had done the impossible and kept her trap shut the last couple of pages wouldn't have happened.  So when I want your advise I'll ask for it OK?

But you are still going on about it are you not?

If you do not get involved, the thread would not continue, which is my point, so I am not taking sides, but saying people only have themselves to blame if they get involved, the same goes for Nems too.

Move on or rise above it.

Simple

Excellent point Didge, sadly Sassy is afflicted with do as I say not as I do

[Guest]

No Didge, I'm 'going on' about this thread and the fact that not accepting Lovey's explanation caused the rest.

[Guest]

I really can't seem why LD bumping this thread should bother Nems or anyone...

an unecessary farce has now been created out of nothing.

Nems should have just stayed quiet rather than make something out if it.


Nems if it bothers you so much, then why????????

[Guest]

I wonder, should I use my powers of invisibility to fight crime or stay hidden from the world.

  

[Guest]

But you are still going on about it are you not?

If you do not get involved, the thread would not continue, which is my point, so I am not taking sides, but saying people only have themselves to blame if they get involved, the same goes for Nems too.

Move on or rise above it.

Simple

Excellent point Didge, sadly Sassy is afflicted with do as I say not as I do

You are just as bad, give it a fucking rest, it is tit for tat, snapping at each others heels its pathetic

[Guest]

FFs really
i knew it was a fucking mistake to come back and now I am being used to start the shit stirring again
BA made an accusation that was untrue the thread concerned was bumped up that was not my doing and now you lot are at it a again its like you need the conflict and i am sick of it sick sick sick
You can all go to fucking hell as far as I am concerned, I don't need this crap your like a bunch of bloody children

Well, enjoy your misery because I really don't need this crap
BA lied the only person i got on to was PHIll for calling posters scum who where not around to defend them selfs and thouse posters where right wing posters from flaps

do i get any credit for standing up for them no i just get my words and intentions twisted and misrepresented so that i am the bad guy well fine

have a nice life

good bye

[Guest]

FFs really
i knew it was a fucking mistake to come back and now I am being used to start the shit stirring again
BA made an accusation that was untrue the thread concerned was bumped up that was not my doing and now you lot are at it a again its like you need the conflict and i am sick of it sick sick sick
You can all go to fucking hell as far as I am concerned, I don't need this crap your like a bunch of bloody children

Well, enjoy your misery because I really don't need this crap
BA lied the only person i got on to was PHIll for calling posters scum who where not around to defend them selfs and thouse posters where right wing posters from flaps

do i get any credit for standing up for them no i just get my words and intentions twisted and misrepresented so that i am the bad guy well fine

have a nice life

good bye

Sorry KD, been away, read it and got angry. Shan't bring it up again.

[Guest]

FFs really
i knew it was a fucking mistake to come back and now I am being used to start the shit stirring again
BA made an accusation that was untrue the thread concerned was bumped up that was not my doing and now you lot are at it a again its like you need the conflict and i am sick of it sick sick sick
You can all go to fucking hell as far as I am concerned, I don't need this crap your like a bunch of bloody children

Well, enjoy your misery because I really don't need this crap
BA lied the only person i got on to was PHIll for calling posters scum who where not around to defend them selfs and thouse posters where right wing posters from flaps

do i get any credit for standing up for them no i just get my words and intentions twisted and misrepresented so that i am the bad guy well fine

have a nice life

good bye

Have you not been reading before you came back? Every thread ends in a slanging match now

[Guest]

FFs really
i knew it was a fucking mistake to come back and now I am being used to start the shit stirring again
BA made an accusation that was untrue the thread concerned was bumped up that was not my doing and now you lot are at it a again its like you need the conflict and i am sick of it sick sick sick
You can all go to fucking hell as far as I am concerned, I don't need this crap your like a bunch of bloody children

Well, enjoy your misery because I really don't need this crap
BA lied the only person i got on to was PHIll for calling posters scum who where not around to defend them selfs and thouse posters where right wing posters from flaps

do i get any credit for standing up for them no i just get my words and intentions twisted and misrepresented so that i am the bad guy well fine

have a nice life

good bye

Have you not been reading before you came back? Every thread ends in a slanging match now

well that makes a world of difference my mistake  :aspukeas: 

[Guest]

Have you not been reading before you came back? Every thread ends in a slanging match now

well that makes a world of difference my mistake  :aspukeas: 

Why on earth would you expect it to be any different? Come of it   

[Guest]

well that makes a world of difference my mistake  :aspukeas: 

Why on earth would you expect it to be any different? Come of it   

yes my fault
i thought you were all adults, but all I see is some acting like petulant vindictive children whose only reason to post is to stick the knife in each others backs every chance you get

Well, I for one don`t need it, I am staying for now to speak to ben
But after that I am out of here and leave you all to wallow in the hatred and crap you guys like to dish out every day no wonder this country's filling up with hate

[Guest]

Why on earth would you expect it to be any different? Come of it   

yes my fault
i thought you were all adults, but all I see is some acting like petulant vindictive children whose only reason to post is to stick the knife in each others backs every chance you get

Well, I for one don`t need it, I am staying for now to speak to ben
But after that I am out of here and leave you all to wallow in the hatred and crap you guys like to dish out every day no wonder this country's fucked

I don't think its your fault, but I don't get your surprise, it was ever thus
Take Care KD

[eddie]

:ashmmmas: 

[Guest]

Look KD I know exactly where you are coming from - I mean come on I had the mega online meltdown did I not? (those at the back sniggering can F off)

I must have been near on a year having nothing to do with people on here while I found other, better, things to do - but I have returned to splash in the shallows because at the bottom of the slime pit that is ex sky posters there are nuggets of real gold in the memory stakes that are worth hanging onto.

Spend some time away sure, dont get back deep into it, spend time doing other things - but dont disappear forever

[eddie]

Look KD I know exactly where you are coming from - I mean come on I had the mega online meltdown did I not? (those at the back sniggering can F off)

I must have been near on a year having nothing to do with people on here while I found other, better, things to do - but I have returned to splash in the shallows because at the bottom of the slime pit that is ex sky posters there are nuggets of real gold in the memory stakes that are worth hanging onto.

Spend some time away sure, dont get back deep into it, spend time doing other things - but dont disappear forever

Good post from sphinxy poo.

I do likes ya sphinx  :curtsy: 

[Guest]

Back at ya Eddie

[eddie]

Back at ya Eddie

 :askissas: 

[Cass]

so I'm sitting here watching the footie and eating chips (Yankee kind) and cheese queso and I have tomorrow off. I wont say who I'm rooting for as my 1st choice just crashed and burned big time....

its also spaghetti and meatballs tonight. the dilemma is do I drag my arse to the store and buy some bread for home made garlic toast or be lazy and use the cheapo stuff in the freezer......decisions decisions

have a splenidiferous night peeps x

[eddie]

so I'm sitting here watching the footie and eating chips (Yankee kind) and cheese queso and I have tomorrow off. I wont say who I'm rooting for as my 1st choice just crashed and burned big time....

its also spaghetti and meatballs tonight. the dilemma is do I drag my arse to the store and buy some bread for home made garlic toast or be lazy and use the cheapo stuff in the freezer......decisions decisions

have a splenidiferous night peeps x

I'm off to bed now Cass xxx but I'd advise dragging your arse to the store to buy the bread for the homemade garlic toast.

Oh, and whilst there, pick up some COOKIES!!!!   

[Cass]

so I'm sitting here watching the footie and eating chips (Yankee kind) and cheese queso and I have tomorrow off. I wont say who I'm rooting for as my 1st choice just crashed and burned big time....

its also spaghetti and meatballs tonight. the dilemma is do I drag my arse to the store and buy some bread for home made garlic toast or be lazy and use the cheapo stuff in the freezer......decisions decisions

have a splenidiferous night peeps x

I'm off to bed now Cass xxx but I'd advise dragging your arse to the store to buy the bread for the homemade garlic toast.

Oh, and whilst there, pick up some COOKIES!!!!   

fine....leave....I'm fine on my own.....sniff....really.....don't give me another thought.....sob....I will be ok....eventually

I will send junior when he gets back from fishing....the joys of having kids who drive



night.....sniiff xxxxx

[Guest]

FFs really
i knew it was a fucking mistake to come back and now I am being used to start the shit stirring again
BA made an accusation that was untrue the thread concerned was bumped up that was not my doing and now you lot are at it a again its like you need the conflict and i am sick of it sick sick sick
You can all go to fucking hell as far as I am concerned, I don't need this crap your like a bunch of bloody children

Well, enjoy your misery because I really don't need this crap
BA lied the only person i got on to was PHIll for calling posters scum who where not around to defend them selfs and thouse posters where right wing posters from flaps

do i get any credit for standing up for them no i just get my words and intentions twisted and misrepresented so that i am the bad guy well fine

have a nice life

good bye

Bye, turdy-boy.

And don't be such a big girl - have some balls and vote yes!

[Guest]

FFs really
i knew it was a fucking mistake to come back and now I am being used to start the shit stirring again
BA made an accusation that was untrue the thread concerned was bumped up that was not my doing and now you lot are at it a again its like you need the conflict and i am sick of it sick sick sick
You can all go to fucking hell as far as I am concerned, I don't need this crap your like a bunch of bloody children

Well, enjoy your misery because I really don't need this crap
BA lied the only person i got on to was PHIll for calling posters scum who where not around to defend them selfs and thouse posters where right wing posters from flaps

do i get any credit for standing up for them no i just get my words and intentions twisted and misrepresented so that i am the bad guy well fine

have a nice life

good bye

Bye, turdy-boy.

And don't be such a big girl - have some balls and vote yes!

yea go and fuck your self you lying to faced turd its total arse wipes like you that infect good places make up shit and stand back and watch you are a waste of skin little boy

[Guest]

FFs really
i knew it was a fucking mistake to come back and now I am being used to start the shit stirring again
BA made an accusation that was untrue the thread concerned was bumped up that was not my doing and now you lot are at it a again its like you need the conflict and i am sick of it sick sick sick
You can all go to fucking hell as far as I am concerned, I don't need this crap your like a bunch of bloody children

Well, enjoy your misery because I really don't need this crap
BA lied the only person i got on to was PHIll for calling posters scum who where not around to defend them selfs and thouse posters where right wing posters from flaps

do i get any credit for standing up for them no i just get my words and intentions twisted and misrepresented so that i am the bad guy well fine

have a nice life

good bye

Bye, turdy-boy.

And don't be such a big girl - have some balls and vote yes!

Still showing yourself to be a complete waste of space BA?

[Guest]

Bye, turdy-boy.

And don't be such a big girl - have some balls and vote yes!

yea go and fuck your self you lying to faced turd

I wish I had said that instead!!!!!     

[Guest]

As i have a new house in dunning glen i will be voting yes
if only so i can say i dont live in the same country as that retard big angela 9
plus i have proved you a lying twat ....so a good day all in all

[Irn Bru]

As i have a new house in dunning glen i will be voting yes
if only so i can say i dont live in the same country as that retard big angela 9
plus i have proved you a lying twat ....so a good day all in all

Your record as a mod on SF was excellent and everyone bar a few said that you were doing a great job and you were.

Don't let the clowns that frequented the place back then and the same one's on here drive you away.

You are a well respected poster and I'm really glad you have come back. You're worth more than any of the clowns that hang about lying and causing trouble so don't let them win.

Stick in there.

Irn

[Eilzel]

As i have a new house in dunning glen i will be voting yes
if only so i can say i dont live in the same country as that retard big angela 9
plus i have proved you a lying twat ....so a good day all in all

Korban, ignore the regurgitated arguments, they aren't important anymore (nor should they ever have been...), stick around pal, there are plenty of good debates now and then if you gave get through the crap   

[Ben Reilly]

FFs really
i knew it was a fucking mistake to come back and now I am being used to start the shit stirring again
BA made an accusation that was untrue the thread concerned was bumped up that was not my doing and now you lot are at it a again its like you need the conflict and i am sick of it sick sick sick
You can all go to fucking hell as far as I am concerned, I don't need this crap your like a bunch of bloody children

Well, enjoy your misery because I really don't need this crap
BA lied the only person i got on to was PHIll for calling posters scum who where not around to defend them selfs and thouse posters where right wing posters from flaps

do i get any credit for standing up for them no i just get my words and intentions twisted and misrepresented so that i am the bad guy well fine

have a nice life

good bye

Bye, turdy-boy.

And don't be such a big girl - have some balls and vote yes!

It's funny how you make yourself out to be such a big draw around here, I think you're compensating for something, BA. As for me, I like Korban and hope he stays.

[eddie]

Well I like Andy and Korben.

So there.

[Guest]

Crikey, what a palaver.

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