Female Rape Fantasies

gelico wrote:

Didge wrote:

Well, I have been honest with you

Take the piss all you like

The new me thinks, hey ho

And that i stiil care for you as I do for many here

Now, does that answer many questions for you?

i never asked you any questions

i have no idea why you would PM me with a link to a thread 5 months old where zack is slagging off your mum.  why on earth would i even be interested?

you're not bearing grudges much, eh?

you're not emotionally compromised much, eh

psychology degree,,,,yeah course you do, course you do    

Didge wrote:

gelico wrote:

i never asked you any questions

i have no idea why you would PM me with a link to a thread 5 months old where zack is slagging off your mum.  why on earth would i even be interested?

you're not bearing grudges much, eh?

you're not emotionally compromised much, eh

psychology degree,,,,yeah course you do, course you do    

I was trying to show you how this first started

gelico wrote:

Didge wrote:



I was trying to show you how this first started

then you were clearly confusing me with someone who gave a shit

well done for sharing though

hope it made you feel better

Didge wrote:

gelico wrote:


then you were clearly confusing me with someone who gave a shit

well done for sharing though

hope it made you feel better

Contradiction alert, as why reply.

Sadly, you are emotionally compromised

I felt great telling you gelico

The thing is, I know you give a shit Gelico, to say you do not, means you admit to lying, which is odd how you go after sexy.

So fucking what that she said she was blonde and blue eyed. You are so fucking ignorant, that she only did this, as she wanted to fit in, as she was insecure and afraid people would be racist twats towards her. The reailty is, it shows she is a loving and better person than you, as what have you done towards her since?

Been a wanker

You are a nasty piece of work

She has her faults but only wanted to be accepted and yet you constantly attacked her

That makes you a wanker

gelico wrote:

Didge wrote:


Contradiction alert, as why reply.

Sadly, you are emotionally compromised

I felt great telling you gelico

The thing is, I know you give a shit Gelico, to say you do not, means you admit to lying, which is odd how you go after sexy.

So fucking what that she said she was blonde and blue eyed. You are so fucking ignorant, that she only did this, as she wanted to fit in, as she was insecure and afraid people would be racist twats towards her. The reailty is, it shows she is a loving and better person than you, as what have you done towards her since?

Been a wanker

You are a nasty piece of work

She has her faults but only wanted to be accepted and yet you constantly attacked her

That makes you a wanker

oh dear, a cup of hot milk and beddybyes for you, my emotional little bunny.  

as for me,,,,i've always been a wanker

Didge wrote:

gelico wrote:

oh dear, a cup of hot milk and beddybyes for you, my emotional little bunny.  

as for me,,,,i've always been a wanker

Hit a sore point me thinks?

oh i dont get sore didge, i know when to stop

Enjoy

USA Today wrote:Can porn be feminist? These female directors say 'yes'

Patrick Ryan, USA TODAY

There's a new F-word in the porn industry: feminist.

Last year, women accounted for 26% of all traffic worldwide for pornography site Pornhub. As viewership has increased, so has the desire for adult entertainment that emphasizes female pleasure and mutual respect in the bedroom. Spearheading this movement is erotic filmmaker Erika Lust, who is featured in Rashida Jones' Netflix docuseries Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On (now streaming), which explores the relationship between sex and technology.

Porn made with feminist values "is about showing an authentic representation of human sexuality," Lust says. "Mainstream porn is full of repetitive codes and tiring power tropes that are all about (female) genitalia and body parts, yet nothing about the woman. For the men who dominate the industry, pleasuring women normally entails rose petals and silk sheets. Oh no — women like sex just as dirty, kinky and exciting as men do. That's a myth mainstream porn has set out for us and it's completely untrue."

With her XConfessions project, which she started in 2013, Lust creates short films based on erotic fantasies submitted anonymously by fans and followers on her site, featuring both heterosexual and lesbian partners. The Swedish director takes pride in the movies' high production values — lush cinematography, eclectic music and sometimes exotic locations — but also on her efforts to create safe spaces on set.

"I don't direct the sex at all, so they have total freedom and are in control the whole time," Lust says. She typically tries to find actors who already know each other and have a connection. In one of her short films, "Feminist and Submissive," performers Owen Gray and Lina Bembe begin by discussing their upcoming bondage scene while fully clothed: approving safe words and body signals to use if they're uncomfortable, and listening in detail to what the other enjoys.

"I felt it was super-important to show my audience Lina's full consent, as well as a long discussion of the intricacies and personal kinks of her fetishism," Lust says. "In this particular case, they both wanted sensual, passionate and fun play, rather than only focusing on pain or degradation. I agree with what Owen told me in an interview, which is that being feminist means that a woman should have the power to pursue her own desires without the criticism of others — including other women — because what may be empowering or desirable is going to be dramatically different for all individuals."

Key characteristics of feminist porn include clear verbal consent, sex positivity and inclusive casting of women that encompasses different ages, body types, races and ethnicities. Australian pornographer Ms. Naughty creates erotica that is "smart, sensual" and "fun" for her site Bright Desire, which highlights intimacy between partners and doesn't use derogatory terms in video descriptions.

"I find the most interesting porn involves seeing people's faces rather than their genitals, so we focus on faces and hands, and then genitals if we are able to get the shot," she says. "I don't insist performers are 'open to the camera' because those positions often aren't comfortable and don't produce as much pleasure."

Women-run Tumblr pages such as Lady Cheeky, Her Lust and My Feminist Porn Blog similarly promote imagery — primarily GIFs — that is respectful, body-positive and inclusive of both straight and LGBTQ couples.

"It’s hitting a mainstream stride now, where I’ve noticed that more people are doing this and more pages are popping up," says Lane Moore, Cosmopolitan's former sex and relationships editor and host of comedy show Tinder Live!. "There's a huge market for (feminist porn). I have friends who run a lot of sites like this and have a huge audience."

That more adult entertainment is catering to a female audience should come as no surprise. According to a survey of 24,000 women by free pornography site YouPorn released in April, 18% say they watch porn daily and 63% watch weekly or a few times a month. Eighty-nine percent say they watch it without their partners, while 34% say they tend to select videos featuring participants they can relate to (similar in age, weight, ethnicity, etc.). The second-most popular factor in women's porn selection is that it "has a female lead or dominant character," the study found.

But according to a Marie Claire study in 2015, 56% of more than 3,000 women surveyed admitted that they're conflicted about watching porn because of how the adult-entertainment industry treats women, as well as the negative stereotypes such videos can perpetuate. Jones — who co-created Hot Girls Wanted with Jill Bauer and Ronna Gradus —  is among those who have been dissatisfied logging onto "tube sites," which are mostly free porn websites in the vein of YouTube that feature user-uploaded content, much of which depicts women in degrading, sometimes violent scenarios.

"I used to find it hard to find things that I like and turn me on, because it did feel like those tube sites are flooded with this abusive imagery," Jones says. "I think that's a reason why women are not as comfortable accessing porn, because the first thing that comes up is not necessarily the thing that is going to turn you on."

The debasement of women in porn means that there is no way it can be feminist, argues Dr. Gail Dines, a professor of sociology and women's studies at Wheelock College, and author of Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality.

"The core of feminism is that you can't engage in any activity that hurts other women," Dines says. "We know that being in pornography has a profound impact on a woman's emotional cognitive well-being, we know that it can cause post-traumatic stress disorder. Not to mention all the STDs, all the harm done to the body. I can't imagine a feminist world where you have a flourishing porn industry. It's part of a patriarchal society where men get women where they want them to be: flat on their backs, legs spread."

The only way it could potentially be feminist, she continues, is if women did porn solely out of want, rather than need.

"If you got rid of poverty and racism and global capitalism, and weren't really desperate for money, I wonder how many women would really volunteer to be in porn," Dines says. "There's a reason you don't have women with PhDs and law degrees lining up to do porn, and that's because they have options."

Still, the ongoing debate about porn's feminist merits hasn't deterred viewers.Thirty-one percent of women surveyed by Marie Claire say they watch porn at least once a week, most of them (66%) without their partners. Recognizing its female viewers, PornHub has taken strides to feature more female-friendly work by partnering with content providers Ersties and Yonitale, whose videos are made by and targeted toward women. Sister site YouPorn also launched its "Female Director Series" last year, a specially curated collection of adult videos all directed by women.

"This was all a part of (YouPorn's) ongoing effort to feature female-driven content, and define female directors in a genuine light and champion their creative productions," says Corey Price, Pornhub's vice president.

Having women behind the camera is crucial to more realistic representations in porn, says Amanda de Cadenet, who conducted Marie Clarie's women's porn-viewing habits survey and runs a foundation, GirlGaze, that supports female photographers.

Many porn videos depict "women that come hairless and want to have sex 24/7 in any orifice. That’s not true," de Cadenet says. "Also, if you looked at porn, and your first exposure to sexuality came through pornography, you’d really think there’s one type of body, which is super slim with big (breasts), a big butt and a hairless vagina."

Outside of porn, celebrities are helping broach once-taboo topics of female sexuality and desire through pop culture. TV comedies such as Inside Amy Schumer, The Mindy Project, Broad City, and I Love Dick all are created by women, and feature empowered female characters casually discussing — or in the act of — masturbation and watching porn.

"Media has had an incredibly negative role in suppressing female sexuality for generations," de Cadenet says. But now, "these are women that are using the media to flip that script and say, 'We’re not buying into that anymore. Now that we’ve got a platform, get to write our shows and have a voice, this is one of the things we’re going to draw attention to to change the stigma.' ... I think people are trying to normalize (watching porn), as they should."

https://amp.usatoday.com/amp/101283776

gelico wrote:

Didge wrote:


Hit a sore point me thinks?

oh i dont get sore didge, i know when to stop

Enjoy

isn't that the whole point of it?



wait, are we still talking about wanking?

Fuzzy Zack wrote:Are we going to address this?

Are women finally going to be honest?

I don’t have the fingers to count how many women I’ve across who like a rape role play during sex.

Even more women who like being held down and roughed up during sex.

eddie wrote:

Raggamuffin wrote:

It would also be nice to have a debate without Didge bringing up Islam, but that's not going to happen any time soon.

Islam is a topic. Poster's mothers are not.

Good to see you rags. Was going to pm you today see how you were.  

gelico wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:Are we going to address this?

Are women finally going to be honest?

I don’t have the fingers to count how many women I’ve across who like a rape role play during sex.

Even more women who like being held down and roughed up during sex.

not so much rape fantasy but i used to now and again just like to lie back and be ravaged.  tbh i dont do the submissive very well, i think i'm a natural dom

great to see you again zack, you can be my little slave boy

didge, what are you babbling about?  that's the second person recently that you've called ''emotionally compromised''.  
considering you are about the most emotionally unstable person i've ever come across, you dont do yourself much of a favour, coming out with that sort of nonsense.  you're sounding like a bit of a dick

psychology degree

yeah, right

Didge wrote:

gelico wrote:


not so much rape fantasy but i used to now and again just like to lie back and be ravaged.  tbh i dont do the submissive very well, i think i'm a natural dom

great to see you again zack, you can be my little slave boy

didge, what are you babbling about?  that's the second person recently that you've called ''emotionally compromised''.  
considering you are about the most emotionally unstable person i've ever come across, you dont do yourself much of a favour, coming out with that sort of nonsense.  you're sounding like a bit of a dick

psychology degree

yeah, right

Wow, actually yes i have such a degree gelico

He was last banned for claiming to fuck my mother, claiming she was dead.
Hence

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

I bet your mother has had rape fantasies too. Maybe she had one when conceiving you. Would explain a lot about you.

So you have not a clue

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:

Wow, actually yes i have such a degree gelico

He was last banned for claiming to fuck my mother, claiming she was dead.
Hence



So you have not a clue

Who said I was banned?

I’ve logged on since.

gelico wrote:

Didge wrote:

Well, I have been honest with you

Take the piss all you like

The new me thinks, hey ho

And that i stiil care for you as I do for many here

Now, does that answer many questions for you?

i never asked you any questions

i have no idea why you would PM me with a link to a thread 5 months old where zack is slagging off your mum.  why on earth would i even be interested?

you're not bearing grudges much, eh?

you're not emotionally compromised much, eh

psychology degree,,,,yeah course you do, course you do    

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

eddie wrote:

Islam is a topic. Poster's mothers are not.

Good to see you rags. Was going to pm you today see how you were.  

Then posters shouldn’t bring their mother’s into the topic.

Once they do, their mother’s become part of the discussion.  

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

gelico wrote:

i never asked you any questions

i have no idea why you would PM me with a link to a thread 5 months old where zack is slagging off your mum.  why on earth would i even be interested?

you're not bearing grudges much, eh?

you're not emotionally compromised much, eh

psychology degree,,,,yeah course you do, course you do    

Didge - you’re clearly still obsessed with me if you kept a link for 6 months.

HA HA HA HA HA HO!

Didge wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Who said I was banned?

I’ve logged on since.

Dont you remember when your religious teachings came out in full?

http://www.newsfixboard.com/t21362p50-chilling-picture-shows-female-isil-fighter-holding-child-moments-before-detonating-suicide-vest#409439

You were banned for 30 days

Didge wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge - you’re clearly still obsessed with me if you kept a link for 6 months.

HA HA HA HA HA HO!

Did not need to keep the link, I just look back at your last posts when you were last here.

Its very simple to do, when you have not posted since then

And you still are unable to apologise over your toddler tantrum

Hey ho

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:


Dont you remember when your religious teachings came out in full?

http://www.newsfixboard.com/t21362p50-chilling-picture-shows-female-isil-fighter-holding-child-moments-before-detonating-suicide-vest#409439

You were banned for 30 days

Is that the link you’re PMing to everybody? Stop your obsession with me and maybe you can deal with your temper issues. What does your psychology degree say about obsession and temper?

Did not realise I was banned. Lol!

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:


Did not need to keep the link, I just look back at your last posts when you were last here.

Its very simple to do, when you have not posted since then

And you still are unable to apologise over your toddler tantrum

Hey ho

Completely forgot about it. Are you still upset?

Ben Reilly wrote:Well, there's a giant difference between any fantasy played out between consensual partners and rape.

No woman who wants to do a rape role play with her partner wants to actually be raped, period.

So I don't see any comparison between the two, and I think you're stupid if you equate the two in any way.

Didge wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Completely forgot about it. Are you still upset?

Was not upset in the first place, just was surprised you acted that way

I even defended against you being banned, which clearly shows it did not upset me

As at the end of the day, its just words and my mother is never ever going to read it anyway

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:


Was not upset in the first place, just was surprised you acted that way

I even defended against you being banned, which clearly shows it did not upset me

As at the end of the day, its just words and my mother is never ever going to read it anyway

Then stop whining like a little bitch, begging me for an apology and move on.

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:

Maybe if Fuzzy Zack could see his way to spend less of his idle leisure time in his local B&D/S&M establishments,  and more time getting out-and-about in the real world...

He could then be able to meet a larger, wider and much more varied range of women --  whereupon he would likely find that the actual proportion who are into "rape fantasies" and rough handling is a wee bit smaller than he apparently likes to imagine..

Didge wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Then stop whining like a little bitch, begging me for an apology and move on.

I will say as I please, as i know it clearly bothers you  

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:


I will say as I please, as i know it clearly bothers you  

Lol! You can beg me all you want.

Ben Reilly wrote:Well, there's a giant difference between any fantasy played out between consensual partners and rape.

No woman who wants to do a rape role play with her partner wants to actually be raped, period.

So I don't see any comparison between the two, and I think you're stupid if you equate the two in any way.

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:

Maybe if Fuzzy Zack could see his way to spend less of his idle leisure time in his local B&D/S&M establishments,  and more time getting out-and-about in the real world...

He could then be able to meet a larger, wider and much more varied range of women --  whereupon he would likely find that the actual proportion who are into "rape fantasies" and rough handling is a wee bit smaller than he apparently likes to imagine..

Maybe you’re just a soft, submissive guy yourself. Have you considered that?

Didge wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Is that the link you’re PMing to everybody? Stop your obsession with me and maybe you can deal with your temper issues. What does your psychology degree say about obsession and temper?

Did not realise I was banned. Lol!

Ah more pseudo babble from Zack

Anyway, I love how you simple have no humlity and that you clearly embarress your own religion, by your antics

You really are a great poster boy for Islam

Didge wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Is that the link you’re PMing to everybody? Stop your obsession with me and maybe you can deal with your temper issues. What does your psychology degree say about obsession and temper?

Did not realise I was banned. Lol!

Ah more pseudo babble from Zack

Anyway, I love how you simple have no humlity and that you clearly embarress your own religion, by your antics

You really are a great poster boy for Islam

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Maybe you’re just a soft, submissive guy yourself. Have you considered that?

Maybe you're simply a trolling wannabe jihadist goon; 'all show, but no go'...

Doesn't heve the spine to actually put himself out there on the frontline, where your mouth is doing all the fighting for you..

Have you considered that, you gormless little numbnuts  ?

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:


Ah more pseudo babble from Zack

Anyway, I love how you simple have no humlity and that you clearly embarress your own religion, by your antics

You really are a great poster boy for Islam

You’re not keeping up with psychology, or you could answer my question.

So your degree is effectively worthless.

Didge wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

You’re not keeping up with psychology, or you could answer my question.

So your degree is effectively worthless.

Because you say so.

Yet again, an over inflated ego

Hilarious, but very amusing

Like I say, you show the true nature of Islam

Hate non-believers

Its endemic in how you speak to poster and in also how you demean women, by your constant use of the term bitch

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:


Maybe you're simply a trolling wannabe jihadist goon; 'all show, but no go'...

Doesn't heve the spine to actually put himself out there on the frontline, where your mouth is doing all the fighting for you..

Have you considered that, you gormless little numbnuts  ?

Lol! I did not mean to upset you.

You clearly have unresolved issues. Perhaps you were abused once, I don’t know.

If this thread is bringing up repressed memories for you, I apologise

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:


Because you say so.

Yet again, an over inflated ego

Hilarious, but very amusing

Like I say, you show the true nature of Islam

Hate non-believers

Its endemic in how you speak to poster and in also how you demean women, by your constant use of the term bitch

No, becuase you failed to answer a third year undergraduate question. Ha ha

Didge wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

No, becuase you failed to answer a third year undergraduate question. Ha ha

Have I?

"On no, what shall the world do"

Anything else?

Didge wrote:Maybe Zack can show me this imaginary question

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:

Have I?

"On no, what shall the world do"

Anything else?

Lol! Who’s that quote from? Freud?

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Didge wrote:Maybe Zack can show me this imaginary question

Perhaps you should follow your own advice and read slowly.

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:


Maybe you're simply a trolling wannabe jihadist goon; 'all show, but no go'...

Doesn't heve the spine to actually put himself out there on the frontline, where your mouth is doing all the fighting for you..

Have you considered that, you gormless little numbnuts  ?

Lol! I did not mean to upset you.

You clearly have unresolved issues. Perhaps you were abused once, I don’t know.

If this thread is bringing up repressed memories for you, I apologise

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Lol! I did not mean to upset you.

You clearly have unresolved issues. Perhaps you were abused once, I don’t know.

If this thread is bringing up repressed memories for you, I apologise

The only thing being "abused" around here,  Zucky Fazz, is the intelligence of anyone unfortunate enough as to read any of your constant drivel...

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:

Fuzzy Zack wrote:

Lol! I did not mean to upset you.

You clearly have unresolved issues. Perhaps you were abused once, I don’t know.

If this thread is bringing up repressed memories for you, I apologise

The only thing being "abused" around here,  Zucky Fazz, is the intelligence of anyone unfortunate enough as to read any of your constant drivel...

eddie wrote:I'll answer the question. I like rough sex, in the right frame of mind with the right person on occasion.

"Rape role play" though, would have to be non-violent and obviously consensual. There's a fine line too. I think it's something both partners have to discuss and thee should be a 'safe' word in case either partner wants to stop.