To Ben from Shady.

First topic message reminder :

Good afternoon Ben.

Ben first of all please accept my apologies following your warning to me yesterday in one of the threads.

I accept responsibility for my actions & I recognise that you were correct in administering a warning to me.

In my defence I would like to point out that opposed to trolling,I was in fact attempting to challenge two posters namely Sassy & Catman who were in my opinion flouting the forum rules set in place by your good self.

Without doubt I appreciate the challenges you face regarding forum behaviour & I was sincerely trying to help.

Following this misunderstanding I will keep off the site for a while which I hope will give you time to address some other posters behaviour.

If I can be of further assistance please do not hesitate to call me as my door is always open.

Regards,Shady.

BigAndy9 wrote:

eddie wrote:Sometimes comments can be taken either of two ways.
At times it's intentional and others it's not.

People can also reply on threads and it isn't called butting your nose in, if we didn't butt our noses in thee would only be one comment on each thread!

Yip yap is a dog barking.
I love dogs so that comment wouldn't bother me.

Good morning all, hope you're all well. I have a stinking cold but my OH has man-flu, so you can guess who is worse   

Yes eddie, we know who is worse.

Now stop feeling pity for yourself and look after your poor, hard-working hubbie!

We know that you would be bias towards Nems, you are far right.

Catman wrote:

BigAndy9 wrote:


Yes eddie, we know who is worse.

Now stop feeling pity for yourself and look after your poor, hard-working hubbie!

We know that you would be bias towards Nems, you are far right.

Huh?

What has nems got to do with anything, Mr Catman.

I can assure you I would not be bias toward BigAl, BigFatSexyMama, you, Nems or eddie on any subject!

unless stuff is being said on other forums I cant see why people don't like Nems   
Only seen retaliating in threads where other people have said something first.


And Eddie should look after her hubby, man-flu is dangerous      

BigAndy9 wrote:

Catman wrote:

We know that you would be bias towards Nems, you are far right.

Huh?

What has nems got to do with anything, Mr Catman.

I can assure you I would not be bias toward BigAl, BigFatSexyMama, you, Nems or eddie on any subject!

Read back through the thread.

veya_victaous wrote:unless stuff is being said on other forums I cant see why people don't like Nems   
Only seen retaliating in threads where other people have said something first.


And Eddie should look after her hubby, man-flu is dangerous      

You haven't read many of the threads, read this thread.

Catman wrote:

BigAndy9 wrote:

Huh?

What has nems got to do with anything, Mr Catman.

I can assure you I would not be bias toward BigAl, BigFatSexyMama, you, Nems or eddie on any subject!

Read back through the thread.

No, I won't read back through the thread. If people are arguing, that's up to them, I won't get involved unless I think the arguing has crept in to bullying, and then I would jump in whoever it was.

Mr Catman, read back to eddie's post, then mine because I only posted in reply to eddie's post about man-flu. I think you may have misunderstood my post, thinking I was talking about an argument between others, and you jumped to conclusions based on who I am.

If you didn't do that, then there was no reason for you to post!

BigAndy9 wrote:

Catman wrote:

Read back through the thread.

No, I won't read back through the thread.  If people are arguing, that's up to them, I won't get involved unless I think the arguing has crept in to bullying, and then I would jump in whoever it was.

Mr Catman, read back to eddie's post, then mine because I only posted in reply to eddie's post about man-flu.  I think you may have misunderstood my post, thinking I was talking about an argument between others, and you jumped to conclusions based on who I am.

If you didn't do that, then there was no reason for you to post!

Fuck off Andy.  

Stupid troll.

Catman wrote:

BigAndy9 wrote:


No, I won't read back through the thread.  If people are arguing, that's up to them, I won't get involved unless I think the arguing has crept in to bullying, and then I would jump in whoever it was.

Mr Catman, read back to eddie's post, then mine because I only posted in reply to eddie's post about man-flu.  I think you may have misunderstood my post, thinking I was talking about an argument between others, and you jumped to conclusions based on who I am.

If you didn't do that, then there was no reason for you to post!

Fuck off Andy.  

Stupid troll.

I don't want to insult you Mr Catman, in any way, but just be more friendly to others.

Catman wrote:

eddie wrote:Sometimes comments can be taken either of two ways.
At times it's intentional and others it's not.

People can also reply on threads and it isn't called butting your nose in, if we didn't butt our noses in thee would only be one comment on each thread!

Yip yap is a dog barking.
I love dogs so that comment wouldn't bother me.

Good morning all, hope you're all well. I have a stinking cold but my OH has man-flu, so you can guess who is worse   

You don't understand the history between the posters Eddie.

Seriously?

Eddie has probably been around longest of anyone and is the most tolerant level headed poster you could possibly imagine. If you have reached the point of giving her the brush off there really is no hope for you.

NemsAgain wrote:I think what is said on other forums should stay on other forums.
Stirring the pot really doesnt help matters

Sorry catman I don't see how that is an attack on anyone.

I took it as sensible advice for shady.... I can see the possible double play as in insinuation that sassy is also guilty.... but... you shouldn't jump to conclusions, give people the benefit of the doubt (even Andy         ) and Personally I think the even if it is a double play it is better than a direct attack.

I HOPE not everyone is in attack mode all the time         


 That's why people should use emoticons         at least let people know your trying to by nice    or funny  

Catman wrote:

NemsAgain wrote:
That might be wise, a little zuzz until you are a bit less tired and emotional

I'll let you get back to the other thread where you are baiting Sassy.

  

NOBODY needs to "bait" you or sassy, Phil'...

YOU do a good enough job by yourselves   !!!    

BigAndy9 wrote:

eddie wrote:Sometimes comments can be taken either of two ways.
At times it's intentional and others it's not.

People can also reply on threads and it isn't called butting your nose in, if we didn't butt our noses in thee would only be one comment on each thread!

Yip yap is a dog barking.
I love dogs so that comment wouldn't bother me.

Good morning all, hope you're all well. I have a stinking cold but my OH has man-flu, so you can guess who is worse   

Yes eddie, we know who is worse.

Now stop feeling pity for yourself and look after your poor, hard-working hubbie!

@ Catman - I think you've taken Andy's comments the wrong way, his post has nothing to do with Nems.  "we know who is worse" is referring to Eddie's OH feeling worse than her.

As for the "Yip yap" dog barking being discussed I haven't heard that insult since I was 14 and someone sent a can of dog food and a bonio to a girl in my class.  Playground stuff

veya_victaous wrote:unless stuff is being said on other forums I cant see why people don't like Nems   
Only seen retaliating in threads where other people have said something first.


And Eddie should look after her hubby, man-flu is dangerous      

 

CATMAN lost the plot a couple of weeks ago !

Around the time he began claiming that there is some imaginary "gang" that is supposedly victimising sassy somehow..


AND all this time, Catman has happily ignored sassy's unprovoked and unwarranted attacks against FTL, Sexy Mama and Quill, as well as Nems !   ::alahoo:: 

If you had brains you'd be dangerous Bee. SM is a mate who I phone regularly. There have been no attacks against Nems and FTL, however, they have been following me around, snapping at my heels like a couple of yappy dogs, trying to pick on anything they can find. It's been noted by many.

Firstly all those bloody men who are sympathising with my hubby - PFFfFfFf!!! To you! I work far harder and I'm just as bloody ill. Man flu is just an excuse to use the wife as a mummy.

@Phil, I do know the history, I've heard the stories, been filled in and as sphinx said, I've been around a long time!

@Sphinx, thank you for your fair comment.
I am not level headed today my OH has had his head bitten off and I am now cooking it for his dinner   

eddie wrote:Firstly all those bloody men who are sympathising with my hubby - PFFfFfFf!!! To you! I work far harder and I'm just as bloody ill. Man flu is just an excuse to use the wife as a mummy.

@Phil, I do know the history, I've heard the stories, been filled in and as sphinx said, I've been around a long time!

@Sphinx, thank you for your fair comment.
I am not level headed today my OH has had his head bitten off and I am now cooking it for his dinner   

What man needs an excuse to use his wife as a replacement mum?

  

sphinx wrote:

Catman wrote:

You don't understand the history between the posters Eddie.

Seriously?

Eddie has probably been around longest of anyone and is the most tolerant level headed poster you could possibly imagine.  If you have reached the point of giving her the brush off there really is no hope for you.

How was what i said, giving her the brush off, you silly woman.   

veya_victaous wrote:

NemsAgain wrote:I think what is said on other forums should stay on other forums.
Stirring the pot really doesnt help matters

Sorry catman I don't see how that is an attack on anyone.

I took it as sensible advice for shady.... I can see the possible double play as in insinuation that sassy is also guilty.... but... you shouldn't jump to conclusions, give people the benefit of the doubt (even Andy         ) and Personally I think the even if it is a double play it is better than a direct attack.

I HOPE not everyone is in attack mode all the time         


 That's why people should use emoticons         at least let people know your trying to by nice    or funny  

She was replying to Sassy.

Beekeeper wrote:

veya_victaous wrote:unless stuff is being said on other forums I cant see why people don't like Nems   
Only seen retaliating in threads where other people have said something first.


And Eddie should look after her hubby, man-flu is dangerous      

 

CATMAN lost the plot a couple of weeks ago !

Around the time he began claiming that there is some imaginary "gang" that is supposedly victimising sassy somehow..


AND all this time, Catman has happily ignored sassy's unprovoked and unwarranted attacks against FTL, Sexy Mama and Quill, as well as Nems !   ::alahoo::     

We all know that you hate Sassy, you have made enough abusive posts to her you fucking idiot.
  

Beekeeper wrote:

veya_victaous wrote:unless stuff is being said on other forums I cant see why people don't like Nems   
Only seen retaliating in threads where other people have said something first.


And Eddie should look after her hubby, man-flu is dangerous      

 

CATMAN lost the plot a couple of weeks ago !

Around the time he began claiming that there is some imaginary "gang" that is supposedly victimising sassy somehow..


AND all this time, Catman has happily ignored sassy's unprovoked and unwarranted attacks against FTL, Sexy Mama and Quill, as well as Nems !   ::alahoo::     

Thanks Bee but fortunately being called "a manipulative, devious, two faced bitch" is now against the rules so that should be the end of it

Catman wrote:

sphinx wrote:

Seriously?

Eddie has probably been around longest of anyone and is the most tolerant level headed poster you could possibly imagine.  If you have reached the point of giving her the brush off there really is no hope for you.

How was what i said, giving her the brush off, you silly woman.   

Telling eddie of all people that she does not understand the history is like telling a swimmer they dont understand getting wet.

feelthelove wrote:

Beekeeper wrote:
 

CATMAN lost the plot a couple of weeks ago !

Around the time he began claiming that there is some imaginary "gang" that is supposedly victimising sassy somehow..


AND all this time, Catman has happily ignored sassy's unprovoked and unwarranted attacks against FTL, Sexy Mama and Quill, as well as Nems !   ::alahoo::     

Thanks Bee but fortunately being called "a manipulative, devious, two faced bitch" is now against the rules so that should be the end of it

Yeah but being called "a manipulative, devious, two faced nazi" is allowed so I should be on the look out for that one

sphinx wrote:

Catman wrote:

How was what i said, giving her the brush off, you silly woman.   

Telling eddie of all people that she does not understand the history is like telling a swimmer they dont understand getting wet.

I didn't know that she knew about what happened on SF, she wasn't even a member there.  

SF wasn't even visible to non members, and a lot of the stuff happened behind the scenes anyway.

Catman wrote:SF wasn't even visible to non members, and a lot of the stuff happened behind the scenes anyway.

Behind the scenes in half the people involved then went and whinged about it all over other forums and put their own spin on it which means someone like eddie who has known everyone a long time has a bloody good understanding of what went on.

sphinx wrote:

Catman wrote:SF wasn't even visible to non members, and a lot of the stuff happened behind the scenes anyway.

Behind the scenes in half the people involved then went and whinged about it all over other forums and put their own spin on it which means someone like eddie who has known everyone a long time has a bloody good understanding of what went on.

Well i didn't know that, since i wasn't a member at Flap.   

Catman wrote:

sphinx wrote:

Behind the scenes in half the people involved then went and whinged about it all over other forums and put their own spin on it which means someone like eddie who has known everyone a long time has a bloody good understanding of what went on.

Well i didn't know that, since i wasn't a member at Flap.   

Sphinx is correct. People filled me in.
I don't recall reading about it on flap, certainly not by the people intricately involved, but there may have been gossip.

Anyway, my point was, you jumped on a couple of people for their input on this thread and it's a free forum; anyone is entitled to post anywhere. Fair enough don't you think?

eddie wrote:

Catman wrote:

Well i didn't know that, since i wasn't a member at Flap.   

Sphinx is correct. People filled me in.
I don't recall reading about it on flap, certainly not by the people intricately involved, but there may have been gossip.

Anyway, my point was, you jumped on a couple of people for their input on this thread and it's a free forum; anyone is entitled to post anywhere. Fair enough don't you think?

I stand by everything that i've said on this thread.

Catman wrote:

eddie wrote:


Sphinx is correct. People filled me in.
I don't recall reading about it on flap, certainly not by the people intricately involved, but there may have been gossip.

Anyway, my point was, you jumped on a couple of people for their input on this thread and it's a free forum; anyone is entitled to post anywhere. Fair enough don't you think?

I stand by everything that i've said on this thread.

Fair enough, your prerogative, but I stand by what I say too; people are able to post where they want to whom they want.

Best thread on Flop for ages - 7 pages devoted to berating Newsfix.
In fact, that is virtually the only active thread.
Nice one Ben.

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eddie wrote:Firstly all those bloody men who are sympathising with my hubby - PFFfFfFf!!! To you! I work far harder and I'm just as bloody ill. Man flu is just an excuse to use the wife as a mummy.

@Phil, I do know the history, I've heard the stories, been filled in and as sphinx said, I've been around a long time!

@Sphinx, thank you for your fair comment.
I am not level headed today my OH has had his head bitten off and I am now cooking it for his dinner   

Curried or fried ? Hope yopu are feeling a little better btw.

I can vouch that you have been round the block a few times  :D 

Handy Andy wrote:Best thread on Flop for ages - 7 pages devoted to berating Newsfix.
In fact, that is virtually the only active thread.
Nice one Ben.

Who's doing the berating?

gerber wrote:

eddie wrote:Firstly all those bloody men who are sympathising with my hubby - PFFfFfFf!!! To you! I work far harder and I'm just as bloody ill. Man flu is just an excuse to use the wife as a mummy.

@Phil, I do know the history, I've heard the stories, been filled in and as sphinx said, I've been around a long time!

@Sphinx, thank you for your fair comment.
I am not level headed today my OH has had his head bitten off and I am now cooking it for his dinner   

Curried or fried ?  Hope yopu are feeling a little better btw.

I can vouch that you have been round the block a few times  :D 

Oy!! What you trying to say???
Oh ok it's true....

It was deep fried head   

eddie wrote:

gerber wrote:

Curried or fried ?  Hope yopu are feeling a little better btw.

I can vouch that you have been round the block a few times  :D 

Oy!! What you trying  to say???
Oh ok it's true....

It was deep fried head   

yummy........................... Must be good though so will not say anything else.  

gerber wrote:

eddie wrote:


Oy!! What you trying  to say???
Oh ok it's true....

It was deep fried head   

yummy........................... Must be good though so will not say anything else.  

GERBER!!!!!   

Catman wrote:

Handy Andy wrote:Best thread on Flop for ages - 7 pages devoted to berating Newsfix.
In fact, that is virtually the only active thread.
Nice one Ben.

Who's doing the berating?

The usual nasty rw'ers.
Generally slagging this site for being left wing - which is hypocrisy in the extreme as that place is almost exclusively rw.
Slagging off Sassy , claiming she wants to take over Ben's site, which is aludicrous thing to say.
Claiming Ben is far left and anti-Britain.
From here he look pretty balanced and rounded and has embraced everyone from this side of the pond.
I

Handy Andy wrote:

Catman wrote:

Who's doing the berating?

The usual nasty rw'ers.
Generally slagging this site for being left wing - which is hypocrisy in the extreme as that place is almost exclusively rw.
Slagging off Sassy , claiming she wants to take over Ben's site, which is aludicrous thing to say.
Claiming Ben is far left and anti-Britain.
From here he look pretty balanced and rounded and has embraced everyone from this side of the pond.
I

Doesn't surprise me at all, they want it all their own way.
Thank goodness their futile attempts to change the rules, and dictate what happens here failed miserably.
RW scum.

Handy Andy wrote:

Catman wrote:

Who's doing the berating?

The usual nasty rw'ers.
Generally slagging this site for being left wing - which is hypocrisy in the extreme as that place is almost exclusively rw.
Slagging off Sassy , claiming she wants to take over Ben's site, which is aludicrous thing to say.
Claiming Ben is far left and anti-Britain.
From here he look pretty balanced and rounded and has embraced everyone from this side of the pond.
I

Such empty lives bless them, its sad really.

the one who seems to be doing the most Bitching is Catman.

Puriel wrote:the one who seems to be doing the most Bitching is Catman.

And who might you be, another RW scumbag by the sounds of it.

Catman wrote:

Puriel wrote:the one who seems to be doing the most Bitching is Catman.

And who might you be, another RW scumbag by the sounds of it.

LW scumbag to be factual.

Catman wrote:

Beekeeper wrote:
 

CATMAN lost the plot a couple of weeks ago !

Around the time he began claiming that there is some imaginary "gang" that is supposedly victimising sassy somehow..


AND all this time, Catman has happily ignored sassy's unprovoked and unwarranted attacks against FTL, Sexy Mama and Quill, as well as Nems !   ::alahoo::     

We all know that you hate Sassy, you have made enough abusive posts to her you fucking idiot.
 

 

GO soak your head, you snivelling little fool !!!

Just HOW twisted are you ?   

Catman wrote:

eddie wrote:


Sphinx is correct. People filled me in.
I don't recall reading about it on flap, certainly not by the people intricately involved, but there may have been gossip.

Anyway, my point was, you jumped on a couple of people for their input on this thread and it's a free forum; anyone is entitled to post anywhere. Fair enough don't you think?

I stand by everything that i've said on this thread.

  

And THAT shows how demented and twisted a lying little turd you really are, Phil'!

You disgusting little weasel...

Beekeeper wrote:

Catman wrote:

I stand by everything that i've said on this thread.

  

And THAT  shows how demented and twisted a lying little turd you really are, Phil'!

You disgusting little weasel...

Oh piss off you freak.

You guys remind men of children in the back seat of a car on a long trip. Can't you grow up?

 

FANCY Catty Phil' calling anyone else a "freak" !

Undoubtedly, Phil believes that "It's the rest of the world that's mad !",  and that he's the only sane one...    

Lurker wrote:You guys remind men of children in the back seat of a car on a long trip. Can't you grow up?

Yea, i know that i should have just ignored it, like i do with the majority of the abuse posted at me on here.

Beekeeper wrote:

Catman wrote:

I stand by everything that i've said on this thread.

  

And THAT  shows how demented and twisted a lying little turd you really are, Phil'!

You disgusting little weasel...

That is the type of comment that is totally uncalled for.


Turd = manure = a medium for growing things that can be of benefit to mankind.


Disgusting little weasel in reference to this poster is derogatory to weasels , stoats and ferrets.

Lurker wrote:You guys remind men of children in the back seat of a car on a long trip. Can't you grow up?

Are we nearly there....................................