Stealthing: What You Need To Know About This Illegal New Sex Practice

by Guest Tue May 02, 2017 7:47 am

What is stealthing?

To put it bluntly, stealthing is the practice of a man removing a condom during sexual intercourse, without explicitly requesting permission from his sexual partner to do so. Durex ‘Sex & Relationships expert’ Alix Fox told The Huffington Post UK: “In addition to the word being used to describe a man surreptitiously removing a condom during vaginal intercourse, when a woman has explicitly consented only to having protected sex, I have interviewed gay guys who’ve been ‘stealthed’ whilst receiving anal sex.”

Why are people talking about stealthing now?

Last week The Huffington Post reported that a new study in the USA, written by Alexandra Brodsky for the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law, has shone a light on the growing trend of this disturbing practice, both in the homosexual and heterosexual communities.

Brodsky told HuffPost that she wanted to study the concerning phenomenon back in 2013, as she realised how many of her female friends were being violated in this way, she said they were: “Struggling with forms of mistreatment by sexual partners that weren’t considered part of the recognised repertoire of gender based violence ― but that seemed rooted in the same misogyny and lack of respect.”

Why are people engaging in stealthing?

Brodsky’s study spoke extensively about online communities that exist to defend stealthing as a male “right,” particularly a right of every man to “spread his seed” ― regardless of if said man is engaging in straight or gay penetrative sex.

The study even quotes from comment threads and forums, in which men ‘train’ other men about stealthing best practices, and offer support and advice in their pursuit of nonconsensual condom removal during sex.

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/stealthing-what-you-need-to-know-about-this-illegal-new-sex-practice_uk_58fe00e9e4b06b9cb9187e1b

This beggars belief and more to read on the article

by nicko Tue May 02, 2017 9:21 am

That never even crossed my mind !

by Andy Tue May 02, 2017 10:05 am

Putting one on ot taking it off?

by nicko Tue May 02, 2017 11:41 am

Taking it off, obviously.

by eddie Tue May 02, 2017 12:02 pm

I would imagine that it's little to do with "spreading their seed" in a procreative sense but rather obviously, that sex just feels better without a condom!

by nicko Tue May 02, 2017 1:29 pm

"Like getting into the Bath with wellington boots on" I have heard said.

by Original Quill Tue May 02, 2017 5:05 pm

How do you take it off when it's in a vagina? I mean...maybe if you had one of those Erector toy cranes up there...

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But it wouldn't be very comfortable. Rolling Eyes

by Fred Moletrousers Tue May 02, 2017 5:27 pm

Original Quill wrote:How do you take it off when it's in a vagina? I mean...maybe if you had one of those Erector toy cranes up there...

But it wouldn't be very comfortable.

Maybe Nicko would be the best person to work it out. He's an ex soldier and it was always claimed that with the aid of a barrel, a plank and a hank of strong rope, the army could achieve anything from crossing the Channel to an invasion of Poland, so a simple removal job should be easy meat for him, er, so to speak.....

by Original Quill Tue May 02, 2017 6:00 pm

OK...but it's gotta be inna vagina, no cheating. Laughing

by Fred Moletrousers Tue May 02, 2017 6:25 pm

Original Quill wrote:OK...but it's gotta be inna vagina, no cheating.

What? The whole bloody invasion kit?

by nicko Tue May 02, 2017 7:36 pm

I once watched a program about things removed from a Vagina, one was a can of Coke. It would be lukewarm wouldn't it?

by Fred Moletrousers Tue May 02, 2017 7:59 pm

nicko wrote:I once watched a program about things removed from a Vagina, one was a can of Coke. It would be lukewarm wouldn't it?

NICKO!!!!! I'm trying to eat my bloody dinner!

(Ps. Was it diet or full strength?)

by nicko Wed May 03, 2017 5:30 am

by Original Quill Wed May 03, 2017 6:43 pm

Stealthing: What You Need To Know About This Illegal New Sex Practice