I Only Date Married Men Says Mother of Two Jenny Hendle of Tunbridge Wells, Kent

A mother-of-two has revealed she has chosen to only date married men - not to wreck marriages but because she feels no man can be trusted.
Jenny Hendle, 36, from Tunbridge Wells, Kent, is a serial dater with a difference - she refuses to give single guys the time of day.


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Slapper, gold digger, weird or what doest thou say?

Stormee wrote:A mother-of-two has revealed she has chosen to only date married men - not to wreck marriages but because she feels no man can be trusted.
Jenny Hendle, 36, from Tunbridge Wells, Kent, is a serial dater with a difference - she refuses to give single guys the time of day.


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3530119/Why-date-married-men-Twice-divorced-serial-mistress-admits-finds-flattering-chosen-wives-says-NO-husband-trusted.html#ixzz45VQ894pv
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Slapper, gold digger, weird or what doest thou say?

I can't stand women like her. Selfish, self absorbed, but then more fool the idiot men she dates.

Isn't the onus on the married men not to play around with her?

Raggamuffin wrote:Isn't the onus on the married men not to play around with her?

Yep. A woman can't bed a married man unless he's willing.
snes not the cheater, he is, and if it wasn't her it'd only be someone else.

If I was the wife I'd be thanking her for showing me what a shit I'd married.

Most men are always on the hunt, after a few pints anything will do, almost.

Stormee wrote:Most men are always on the hunt, after a few pints anything will do, almost.

I don't think "most" married men are. Just some.
And they're called 'boys'.

yeah...sod that for a game...

It took me long enough to train the current one....I aint doing all that again...

Stormee wrote:Most men are always on the hunt, after a few pints anything will do, almost.

Not most....some are.
You have never been one of those men and you are not unique....are you??

As for the woman in the OP...she is a slapper pure and simple.
To target married men thinking nothing of the wives and children she is hurting shows her up for what she is.

The men who respond are worse.

I just had a flick through the article....just another plain woman striving to garner attention by trying to be outrageous, grabbing her 5 minutes ... and making a fool of herself.

Syl wrote:I just had a flick through the article....just another plain woman striving to garner attention by trying to be outrageous, grabbing her 5 minutes ... and making a fool of herself.

Yes. Once again, I think - why is this in a newspaper anyway? Did she she ring them up and say - hey, I've got a great story for you about how I like to shag married men?

It's the Samantha Brick syndrome....she was one of the first (that I noticed anyway) of ordinary women you wouldn't look twice at claiming to be extraordinary.......her revelation was that strangers stopped in the street agog at her beauty.
Since then we have had several that manage to worm themselves into the spotlight by creating headlines....usually for something ridiculous.

Syl wrote:It's the Samantha Brick syndrome....she was one of the first (that I noticed anyway) of ordinary women you wouldn't look twice at claiming to be extraordinary.......her revelation was that strangers stopped in the street agog at her beauty.
Since then we have had several that manage to worm themselves into the spotlight by creating headlines....usually for something ridiculous.

Haha! I remember the Samantha Brick thing. What was funny was the outrage though - I wonder if she said it all for a reaction.

Raggamuffin wrote:

Syl wrote:It's the Samantha Brick syndrome....she was one of the first (that I noticed anyway) of ordinary women you wouldn't look twice at claiming to be extraordinary.......her revelation was that strangers stopped in the street agog at her beauty.
Since then we have had several that manage to worm themselves into the spotlight by creating headlines....usually for something ridiculous.

Haha! I remember the Samantha Brick thing. What was funny was the outrage though - I wonder if she said it all for a reaction.

She was quite clever...she had loads of publicity and appeared on TV, she even went into CBB.

Syl wrote:

Raggamuffin wrote:

Haha! I remember the Samantha Brick thing. What was funny was the outrage though - I wonder if she said it all for a reaction.

She was quite clever...she had loads of publicity and appeared on TV, she even went into CBB.

She's so ridiculously open about her private life that she must surely be trolling everyone.

A dear high school friend; owns and operates a swanky hair salon in Colorado...she's bragged more than a few times in our 40+ years of 'I only date and entertain married men'   
When some of 'US' challenged her POV regarding that issue; her empathic reply was >
a.) I don't have to expect them to hang around for morning coffee
b.) they're going to cheat on their respective partners anyway --- why not allow me to enjoy what few of them I chose too
c.) I do not want them as a forever/married partner, so I have zero pressure issues involved
d.) I'm not a 'HOOKER' and I have my morality in check

Now, I don't buy that entirely but  - BUT, as the career percentages for her 'married' men seemed to be more along the lines of upper echelon police detectives/law enforcement type of men --- I'd say that there's a higher percentage of uniformed men that stray then any other profession - besides pro-sports jocks! 

But if the need to be monogamous seems to be a struggle within some of the male gendered humans among us --- isn't it just as applicable that there would be some females that feel the same way

If sex for the simplest driven need to just 'have it'...leaves some humans with little to zero monogamous feelings --- shouldn't they be allowed to act on it, regardless of gender...as long as they are of consenting age?

That's another way of viewing it 4ever

It's the morality of it I guess. Why does the woman in the OP, for example, have to date married men? Why married men??

She's right about one thing though, and I've already said it myself, if they're going to cheat with her they'll cheat anyway.

eddie wrote:That's another way of viewing it 4ever

It's the morality of it I guess. Why does the woman in the OP, for example, have to date married men? Why married men??

She's right about one thing though, and I've already said it myself, if they're going to cheat with her they'll cheat anyway.

Yes, my high school friend didn't want a 'RELATIONSHIP' that was going to become a pressure situation about --- 'well, it's been ______ years and we've never become engaged/spoken about marriage/even ever wanted a 'MAN' to move in with her'...

Not that I understand it or how she felt, exactly; but she came from a family of 9 other siblings and she just enjoyed her own space - her own life and as she would chuckle and say..."I'm the living life example of Andy Taylors girl friend" from the Andy Griffith show.  No one but the drunk - Otis was married on that sitcom! 

I am indifferent.

She says..."It's flattering to be chosen over their wives"....she hasn't been chosen, she is just a quick shag, probably when the wife is unavailable

She also says "I saw my dad persistently cheat on my mum, it broke her heart" and yet she is so self centred and egotistical she is aiding in putting other women in the position her own mother was in.

I just don't get why some women go out of their way to hurt other women, because that's exactly what she is doing.
Yes the husband is a creep, but if their were no sluts like her available there would be less broken marriages and kids growing up without their father in the home.

As for some women liking uninvolved sex with various partners....nothing wrong with that. Just choose single men, there are plenty around.

Syl wrote:She says..."It's flattering to be chosen over their wives"....she hasn't been chosen, she is just a quick shag, probably when the wife is unavailable

She also says "I saw my dad persistently cheat on my mum, it broke her heart" and yet she is so self centred and egotistical she is aiding in putting other women in the position her own mother was in.

I just don't get why some women go out of their way to hurt other women, because that's exactly what she is doing.
Yes the husband is a creep, but if their were no sluts like her available there would be less broken marriages and kids growing up without their father in the home.

As for some women liking uninvolved sex with various partners....nothing wrong with that. Just choose single men, there are plenty around.

So the husband is not a male slut then?

Raggamuffin wrote:

Syl wrote:She says..."It's flattering to be chosen over their wives"....she hasn't been chosen, she is just a quick shag, probably when the wife is unavailable

She also says "I saw my dad persistently cheat on my mum, it broke her heart" and yet she is so self centred and egotistical she is aiding in putting other women in the position her own mother was in.

I just don't get why some women go out of their way to hurt other women, because that's exactly what she is doing.
Yes the husband is a creep, but if their were no sluts like her available there would be less broken marriages and kids growing up without their father in the home.

As for some women liking uninvolved sex with various partners....nothing wrong with that. Just choose single men, there are plenty around.

So the husband is not a male slut then?

I don't make excuses for the men...they are creeps. My sympathy is with the wife and kids.

Syl wrote:

Raggamuffin wrote:

So the husband is not a male slut then?

I don't make excuses for the men...they are creeps. My sympathy is with the wife and kids.

So what's a man who goes around having sex with married women? Is he a slut, and the married women are creeps?

Raggamuffin wrote:

Syl wrote:

I don't make excuses for the men...they are creeps. My sympathy is with the wife and kids.

So what's a man who goes around having sex with married women? Is he a slut, and the married women are creeps?

A slut is described in the EOD as as a woman who has lots of casual sexual partners.....the urban dictionary describes a slut as" a woman with the morals of a man"...that's a bit unfair though.

If a man seeks out only married women to have affairs with you can call him any name you like.

Syl wrote:She says..."It's flattering to be chosen over their wives"....she hasn't been chosen, she is just a quick shag, probably when the wife is unavailable

She also says "I saw my dad persistently cheat on my mum, it broke her heart" and yet she is so self centred and egotistical she is aiding in putting other women in the position her own mother was in.

I just don't get why some women go out of their way to hurt other women, because that's exactly what she is doing.
Yes the husband is a creep, but if their were no sluts like her available there would be less broken marriages and kids growing up without their father in the home.

As for some women liking uninvolved sex with various partners....nothing wrong with that. Just choose single men, there are plenty around.

Syl I agree with much of your posts but why on earth are you blaming the mistress in these situations?
The men are the ones cheating!

The part I've made bold - are you serious?? He will just find another married woman to fuck or a hooker.
If he's gonna cheat he will cheat.

eddie wrote:

Syl wrote:She says..."It's flattering to be chosen over their wives"....she hasn't been chosen, she is just a quick shag, probably when the wife is unavailable

She also says "I saw my dad persistently cheat on my mum, it broke her heart" and yet she is so self centred and egotistical she is aiding in putting other women in the position her own mother was in.

I just don't get why some women go out of their way to hurt other women, because that's exactly what she is doing.
Yes the husband is a creep, but if their were no sluts like her available there would be less broken marriages and kids growing up without their father in the home.

As for some women liking uninvolved sex with various partners....nothing wrong with that. Just choose single men, there are plenty around.

Syl I agree with much of your posts but why on earth are you blaming the mistress in these situations?
The men are the ones cheating!

The part I've made bold - are you serious?? He will just find another married woman to fuck or a hooker.
If he's gonna cheat he will cheat.

I am blaming women who deliberately seek out married men knowing that they have wives and kids at home.....if she wants to shag around with no strings attached there are plenty of single men to pick from.

The man is just as bad, but my point was if women were not so eager to pick up married men the man would have a lot less chance to be unfaithful in the first place....and maybe there would be less abandoned wives and kids around.

This woman doesn't want a relationship, she is just happy to ruin someone elses.

And I realise that the man is an arsehole and doesn't deserve his wife in the first place.....but that's not the point here.

Syl wrote:I just had a flick through the article....just another plain woman striving to garner attention by trying to be outrageous, grabbing her 5 minutes ... and making a fool of herself.

To be fair, it does appear she has fairly big bazoombas.

Ben_Reilly wrote:

Syl wrote:I just had a flick through the article....just another plain woman striving to garner attention by trying to be outrageous, grabbing her 5 minutes ... and making a fool of herself.

To be fair, it does appear she has fairly big bazoombas.

How shallow.

Yeah she does have fairly big bamboozas, but I reckon the men are attracted to her personality at first....

definition.....


mistress...noun....

that which goes between a master and a matress

Daddy issues.

What a magnificent example to set for your children.

Stormee wrote:
Most men are always on the hunt, after a few pints anything will do, almost.

ABSOLUTE Fucking bullshit...

Raggamuffin wrote:
Isn't the onus on the married men not to play around with her?

NOPE....

Fidelity is a two way street..
"IT takes two to Tango !"


FORGETTING about slimy little slut in the OP for just a moment -- what about the minority of cheating lying husbands and boyfriends who hide the existence of their other half -- on those cases the woman that he's being unfaithful with is the innocent party, if she believes him to be single and unattached..

The very opposite of that worthless scrubber that this thread is concerned with...

Raggamuffin wrote:

Syl wrote:

I don't make excuses for the men...they are creeps. My sympathy is with the wife and kids.

So what's a man who goes around having sex with married women? Is he a slut, and the married women are creeps?

HE COULD  always be described as a bastard with the morals of a slut.

BUT don't also ignore the mirror situation of an innocent single man being tricked by a deceitful 'Cougar' hiding the existence of a husband or boyfriend..

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:

Stormee wrote:
Most men are always on the hunt, after a few pints anything will do, almost.

ABSOLUTE Fucking bullshit...

absolutely agree with you