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Brits say they don't feel like a proper adult until nearly 30 -- why?

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Post by Ben Reilly Tue Jul 30, 2019 7:17 pm

We legally become adults in the UK when we’re 18. We can buy a round at the pub, open a bank account in our own name, get a tattoo, and serve on a jury – but that doesn’t necessarily mean we feel like adults.

A decade later, aged 28, I still regularly feel like two toddlers masquerading in an overcoat despite having a full-time job, a home I can afford to rent, and two plants I haven’t killed.

And I’m not alone. New research has found most Brits (59%) don’t feel like ‘proper adults’ until they’re at least 29-years-old. And a quarter of the people surveyed by Nottingham Building Society believed they wouldn’t feel like an adult until the age of 60 – or over.

So why the discrepancy – between when we legally become a grown up – and when we feel like one? Have our elders always felt this way, or are millennials feeling this because traditionally “adult” milestones – like home ownership – are increasingly out of reach, or postponed until later in life?

https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/this-is-the-age-that-brits-feel-like-like-an-adult-but-really_uk_5d400497e4b0d24cde053f28?utm_hp_ref=uk-homepage

I can totally see how not being able to afford the traditional milestones of adulthood would make people feel like they aren't real adults. I basically felt the same way before I got married.
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Post by Vintage Tue Jul 30, 2019 8:06 pm

Probably getting married and having a family made people feel grown up. People tended to get married a lot earlier and far from owning your own home, you rented rooms or a flat to begin with then rented a house. Its not that long ago that some left school at 14/15 and started work and had a certain amount of responsibility at work and at home contributing to the family income. Even in the 70's and 80's people had to save hard for a few years before being able to put down a deposit on a house, if they were lucky enough to afford a mortgage. Who ever wrote that must come from a reasonably well off home and community.

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