Reality Check.......

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

NemsAgain wrote:

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

Well said FTL
have a smiley  :D 

feelthelove wrote:

NemsAgain wrote:

Well said FTL
have a smiley  :D 

xxx

Eilzel wrote:

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

Agreed FtL; fortunately there are a couple of fun threads going on, abuse free (though not without some hilarious attempts at 'logic' being but forward) in the religion threads in Social Issues  :D 

feelthelove wrote:

Eilzel wrote:

Agreed FtL; fortunately there are a couple of fun threads going on, abuse free (though not without some hilarious attempts at 'logic' being but forward) in the religion threads in Social Issues  :D 

Yes Les, I've been watching the threads waiting for a feasible explanation for Noah's Ark

Things here are getting over personal x

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

Ben_Reilly wrote:

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

Thanks, FTL, I completely agree. I realize I've been getting drawn into it as well (as PhilDidge pointed out in another thread) and will do my best to behave myself. :D

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

SEXY MAMA wrote:

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

Very true x

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

feelthelove wrote:

Ben_Reilly wrote:

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

Thanks, FTL, I completely agree. I realize I've been getting drawn into it as well (as PhilDidge pointed out in another thread) and will do my best to behave myself. :D

Thank you Ben, you wouldn't want to end up in my naughty corner now would you

heavenly father wrote:

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

I personally like to see "forceful" debate and on topics close to peoples hearts that will happen, the need for personal comments or insults are totally unnecessary though.
especially those that contain no view point or debating point.. :D 

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

Maine coon lover wrote:

feelthelove wrote:......is this forum about the posters or the debate??? The bitching is in danger of overtaking the discussion. Not every thread needs to be serious but the alternative agendas, personal disputes seem to be taking over.

Many of us love it here, move on, ignore whatever....please don't ruin it for the majority   

I agree ftl, life is too short to hold a grudge we are all adults and can move on i am sure .

Peace and love everyone xxx

feelthelove wrote:

heavenly father wrote:

I personally like to see "forceful" debate and on topics close to peoples hearts that will happen, the need for personal comments or insults are totally unnecessary though.
especially those that contain no view point or debating point.. :D 

I agree Heavenly Father, there is no need to resort to personal abuse or name calling.  I think sometimes people fail to differentiate between opinion and the person.  Dislike of someone's opinion turns into the dislike of that person which seems daft to me

victorismyhero wrote:

feelthelove wrote:

I agree Heavenly Father, there is no need to resort to personal abuse or name calling.  I think sometimes people fail to differentiate between opinion and the person.  Dislike of someone's opinion turns into the dislike of that person which seems daft to me

Unfortunately SOME folks harbour such vile opinions that it is reasonable to assume that they are vile people...

feelthelove wrote:

heavenly father wrote:

I personally like to see "forceful" debate and on topics close to peoples hearts that will happen, the need for personal comments or insults are totally unnecessary though.
especially those that contain no view point or debating point.. :D 

I agree Heavenly Father, there is no need to resort to personal abuse or name calling.  I think sometimes people fail to differentiate between opinion and the person.  Dislike of someone's opinion turns into the dislike of that person which seems daft to me

Sassy wrote:No sooner spoken about than arrives.

eddie wrote:

Sassy wrote:No sooner spoken about than arrives.

Can you explain in sentences that Phil understands, that I wasn't on flap when him and Doug were being attacked, I was having a baby and raising a child.

I have told him but he's too fucking stupid/ignorant/drunk to understand.


And also tell him, this is why no one likes him. Because he is too stupid/ignorant/drunk to understand that the whole wide world doesn't revolve around him and his life.

Sorry to involve you sassy, truly,  but perhaps you speak in language that I don't.

Catman wrote:

eddie wrote:


Can you explain in sentences that Phil understands, that I wasn't on flap when him and Doug were being attacked, I was having a baby and raising a child.

I have told him but he's too fucking stupid/ignorant/drunk to understand.


And also tell him, this is why no one likes him. Because he is too stupid/ignorant/drunk to understand that the whole wide world doesn't revolve around him and his life.

Sorry to involve you sassy, truly,  but perhaps you speak in language that I don't.

...Yet in another conversation, and on another thread, Sphinx and you had a go at me, because you are up to speed with things!
  

Catman wrote:

eddie wrote:


Can you explain in sentences that Phil understands, that I wasn't on flap when him and Doug were being attacked, I was having a baby and raising a child.

I have told him but he's too fucking stupid/ignorant/drunk to understand.


And also tell him, this is why no one likes him. Because he is too stupid/ignorant/drunk to understand that the whole wide world doesn't revolve around him and his life.

Sorry to involve you sassy, truly,  but perhaps you speak in language that I don't.

...Yet in another conversation, and on another thread, Sphinx and you had a go at me, because you are up to speed with things!
  

Sassy wrote:

Catman wrote:

...Yet in another conversation, and on another thread, Sphinx and you had a go at me, because you are up to speed with things!
  

Phil, you know I agree with you on things we have spoken of, but Eddie was having her baby when you were on Flop, so you can't blame her for that.   Take a step back love, I know many are out to get you, but not all, honest.

eddie wrote:

Sassy wrote:

Phil, you know I agree with you on things we have spoken of, but Eddie was having her baby when you were on Flop, so you can't blame her for that.   Take a step back love, I know many are out to get you, but not all, honest.

Thank you.
I have never ever let anyone have a go at Doug. The man is ill and not here to defend himself. I just wouldn't have it.
I had a baby and an almost two year gap, not a moral transplant!!!!

victorismyhero wrote:

feelthelove wrote:

I agree Heavenly Father, there is no need to resort to personal abuse or name calling.  I think sometimes people fail to differentiate between opinion and the person.  Dislike of someone's opinion turns into the dislike of that person which seems daft to me

Unfortunately SOME folks harbour such vile opinions that it is reasonable to assume that they are vile people...

Original Quill wrote:Huh...been gone for 3-4 days,  When I was here last everyone was congratulating themselves about how peaceful the place was.  Now, everyone is at each other's throats.

Must be cyclical.

feelthelove wrote:

Original Quill wrote:Huh...been gone for 3-4 days,  When I was here last everyone was congratulating themselves about how peaceful the place was.  Now, everyone is at each other's throats.

Must be cyclical.

Noticed you'd not been around Quill   x

Hope all ok with you.  Take no notice, there's a love in later

Original Quill wrote:

feelthelove wrote:

Noticed you'd not been around Quill   x

Hope all ok with you.  Take no notice, there's a love in later

Hi, hon.  Been busy...still, I couldn't stay away for too long.  Your memory beckons like the flower to the bee.

Been ok...ribs healed and such.

xxx

PS: I've downloaded every popup blocker in the book, and still they're all over.