Gay waitress left with Bible verse in lieu of tip

A Charlotte waitress says she was infuriated and hurt when a group of ladies left a message for her on their bill – taking aim at her sexual orientation.

Alexandra Judd works at Zada Janes in Charlotte’s Plaza Midwood. She says a group of patrons she served for lunch Tuesday morning left her a “hateful message” in lieu of a tip.

A Bible verse was left on the tip pointing Judd to Leviticus 20:13.

“If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination,” the King James version of the Old Testament verse reads. “They shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.”

Judd is gay.

The bottom of the receipt had a message for her as well: “Praying for you!”

“I never expected a hateful gesture like this,” Judd said of the comments. “I’ve had a guest leave me a pamphlet to their church as a tip one time, but I didn’t feel as if they were being hateful towards me. The ladies that came in were very rude, and would hardly talk to me – but I never expected this.”

She says she was infuriated and hurt by what she saw.

“I’ve heard of people leaving fake money, or writing funny stuff in the tip spot of a check but never believed it would happen to me, in the way that it did,” she said.

Judd posted a picture of the receipt on her Facebook page. Her co-workers and friends have shared the post and shared their shock and anger in the comments.

sassy wrote:No perversion isn't damn well apt, only in the mind of a bigotted, backward, hateful, inane waste of space.

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:

I WONDER HOW those customers knew that she was gay ?

DID THEY target her after someone told them ?


(IF SO,  would those church women be guilty of vilification and harassment, under anti-discrimination laws - if such targeted harassment could be proven?).

WhoseYourWolfie wrote:

I WONDER HOW those customers knew that she was gay ?

DID THEY target her after someone told them ?


(IF SO,  would those church women be guilty of vilification and harassment, under anti-discrimination laws - if such targeted harassment could be proven?).

sassy wrote:You need insulting, just been reading people's reactions to your wish to bring the age of consent down to 14 for boys.  I'm very glad people found it sickening! 

Stormee wrote:

sassy wrote:You need insulting, just been reading people's reactions to your wish to bring the age of consent down to 14 for boys.  I'm very glad people found it sickening! 

You are being personal ALL the time, stick to the post, NOT the poster.

sassy wrote:

Stormee wrote:

You are being personal ALL the time, stick to the post, NOT the poster.

Post and poster intertwined, as the post could not have been made without the poster being a ranting homophobic bigot.

Stormee wrote:

sassy wrote:



Post and poster intertwined, as the post could not have been made without the poster being a ranting homophobic bigot.

Discuss the topic, not the poster.

sassy wrote:

Stormee wrote:

Discuss the topic, not the poster.

When you stop making homophobic posts.

didge wrote:

sassy wrote:

When you stop making homophobic posts.

Every thread you jumo in stirring

Debate the points and not the poster

Its not difficult

sassy wrote:

didge wrote:


Every thread you jumo in stirring

Debate the points and not the poster

Its not difficult

Fuck off and verbally beat someone else up, does it help release your aggression?  Just a lowlife thug.

didge wrote:

sassy wrote:

When you stop making homophobic posts.

Every thread you jumo in stirring

Debate the points and not the poster

Its not difficult

Syl wrote:

didge wrote:


Every thread you jumo in stirring

Debate the points and not the poster

Its not difficult

Lol...pot kettle.
Have you made a comment about this thread??? thought not.

didge wrote:

Syl wrote:

Lol...pot kettle.
Have you made a comment about this thread??? thought not.

I just asked someone to stop, is that now wrong to you or do you get off on those stirring?

Stormee wrote:I hate that word gay used in this one context, perverse is apt.

Gay to me means happy, smiling, cheerful and similar.

didge wrote:

Syl wrote:

didge wrote:


Every thread you jumo in stirring

Debate the points and not the poster

Its not difficult

Lol...pot kettle.
Have you made a comment about this thread??? thought not.

I just asked someone to stop, is that now wrong to you or do you get off on those stirring?

eddie wrote:

didge wrote:


I just asked someone to stop, is that now wrong to you or do you get off on those stirring?

No one asked you to step in AND you're not a mod AND you called someone a prick today for disagreeing with you AND..... Want me to carry on??

Syl wrote:

didge wrote:


I just asked someone to stop, is that now wrong to you or do you get off on those stirring?

Just pointing out your extreme hypocrisy almost every time you post Didge.

Not that you ever digest anyones valid criticism of your posting style........but I am always happy to help.

didge wrote:

sassy wrote:

Fuck off and verbally beat someone else up, does it help release your aggression?  Just a lowlife thug.

Wow what a potty mouth, stop stirring and then I have no need to then tell you off

eddie wrote:Well you lied today so you're also a prick going by that pathetic explanation.

And no one needs your help to reign anything in, it didn't work - people just fucked off when you arrived.

eddie wrote:Well you lied today so you're also a prick going by that pathetic explanation.

And no one needs your help to reign anything in, it didn't work - people just fucked off when you arrived.

didge wrote:

Syl wrote:

Just pointing out your extreme hypocrisy almost every time you post Didge.

Not that you ever digest anyones valid criticism of your posting style........but I am always happy to help.

What hypocrisy

That would be jumping in starting as you are doing yourself now

So always happy to expose your double standards hun

Syl wrote:

didge wrote:

What hypocrisy

That would be jumping in starting as you are doing yourself now

So always happy to expose your double standards hun

Wrong....but you just carry on disrupting threads, you are good at that.
Night....... hun.

didge wrote:

eddie wrote:Well you lied today so you're also a prick going by that pathetic explanation.

And no one needs your help to reign anything in, it didn't work - people just fucked off when you arrived.

Did I?

Show me where I lied?

I am not breaking any rules

So its really none of your business Eddie

Again you seem to think you speak for everyone

Either you are behind my back via PM or you are talking shit?

So which is it?

sassy wrote:

didge wrote:


Wow what a potty mouth, stop stirring and then I have no need to then tell you off

You don't have the right to tell me off.  I know you think you are the king of all you survey but hate to break it to you, you're not, never have been , never will be.  You are just a someone that has to be tolerated and laughed at.

eddie wrote:

didge wrote:

Did I?

Show me where I lied?

I am not breaking any rules

So its really none of your business Eddie

Again you seem to think you speak for everyone

Either you are behind my back via PM or you are talking shit?

So which is it?

What???? Do you think I care enough about forum life that I'm busy pm'ing people to say.....what exactly?  

To coin one of your phrases: I suggest you grow the fuck up.

And it is my business because today Mathew.....I am admin with a big fat A.

didge wrote:

sassy wrote:


You don't have the right to tell me off.  I know you think you are the king of all you survey but hate to break it to you, you're not, never have been , never will be.  You are just a someone that has to be tolerated and laughed at.

I did tell you off and will continue to do so when you jump on threads as you have twice tonight to start on people

That will happen everytime you start on people

eddie wrote:Bet you'd like to be a teacher....wouldn't you?

sassy wrote:

didge wrote:

I did tell you off and will continue to do so when you jump on threads as you have twice tonight to start on people

That will happen everytime you start on people

You'll be talking to yourself then, but I expect you know all about that lol.

didge wrote:

eddie wrote:Bet you'd like to be a teacher....wouldn't you?

I do teach already Eddie and do so for free..

eddie wrote:

didge wrote:

I do teach already Eddie and do so for free..

Wow. I want to live your life as you have so many more hours than the rest of us

Where do you teach Didge?

eddie wrote:

didge wrote:

I do teach already Eddie and do so for free..

Wow. I want to live your life as you have so many more hours than the rest of us

Where do you teach Didge?

sassy wrote:

eddie wrote:

Wow. I want to live your life as you have so many more hours than the rest of us

Where do you teach Didge?

His teddy bears.

eddie wrote:I believe you teach your Nieces piano Didge, due to how you answered.
I always know when someone is lying, and you lied about reading Amaral's book.

Anyway bored now.

Miffs2 wrote:So much tolerance and acceptance on a thread about the intolerance and lack of acceptance shown to this waitress. Pot kettle and black

eddie wrote:

Miffs2 wrote:So much tolerance and acceptance on a thread about the intolerance and lack of acceptance shown to this waitress. Pot kettle and black

Yeah... I became pretty intolerant of some bullshit today and decided to put my arsey Worzel head on and see what happened.

Btw I had to sing the Worzel song to remember how to spell Worzel.