Stand by your man ??

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:26 pm

The latest couple in the public eye to stand together after one of them has been caught cheating again is Tess Daly and Vernon Kay....she vows that she will "not let this woman ruin our maarriage".
But no other woman or man can ruin a marriage in this way if both partners are faithful.

This is the second time Tess Daly has stood by her man, would you give a cheater a second (or even a first ) chance? or is once a cheater always a cheater?

http://metro.co.uk/2016/04/03/tess-daly-vows-to-stand-by-vernon-kay-i-wont-let-this-woman-ruin-my-marriage-5792034/

by Raggamuffin Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:41 pm

It was headline news in The Sun the other day. Why we all need to know what Vernon Kay has been up to is a mystery. Still, it's out there now. Laughing

Did the woman leak the phone texts to the press?

by Miffs2 Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:43 pm

Syl wrote:The latest couple in the public eye to stand together after one of them has been caught cheating again is Tess Daly and Vernon Kay....she vows that she will "not let this woman ruin our maarriage".
But no other woman or man can ruin a marriage in this way if both partners are faithful.

This is the second time Tess Daly has stood by her man, would you give a cheater a second (or even a first ) chance? or is once a cheater always a cheater?

http://metro.co.uk/2016/04/03/tess-daly-vows-to-stand-by-vernon-kay-i-wont-let-this-woman-ruin-my-marriage-5792034/

It's not like it's his first time! She is kidding herself blaming the other woman.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:47 pm

I doubt Vernon Kay did....what a creep he is though.

When lovely women like his wife stick to a cheater like him (for now at least) I always wonder why.
She earns more than him, is a lot more popular than he is, and apart from her lapse in judgment in allowing him to stay seems pretty clued up and nice.

I suppose she will stick by him till she realises she can do a whole lot better.
If I was in her shoes he would be out so quick he wouldn't see the light of day.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:49 pm

Miffs2 wrote:
Syl wrote:The latest couple in the public eye to stand together after one of them has been caught cheating again is Tess Daly and Vernon Kay....she vows that she will "not let this woman ruin our maarriage".
But no other woman or man can ruin a marriage in this way if both partners are faithful.

This is the second time Tess Daly has stood by her man, would you give a cheater a second (or even a first ) chance? or is once a cheater always a cheater?

http://metro.co.uk/2016/04/03/tess-daly-vows-to-stand-by-vernon-kay-i-wont-let-this-woman-ruin-my-marriage-5792034/

It's not like it's his first time! She is kidding herself blaming the other woman.

Some women do that don't they? they blame the other person, completely overlooking the fact that it's their OH who has been unfaithful to them, no one else.

by Raggamuffin Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:53 pm

What about Oliver Mellor? He was said to have dumped Rhian Sugden, but apparently he hasn't.

by nicko Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:54 pm

A standing pr~ck has no conscious, [old Chinese proverb]

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:56 pm

Tess Daly is an idiot and clearly thinks by clinging on she can "fix" things.
She's either:

Insecure
Or
Hates losing

Some partners cling on even after being publically humiliated becaeue they don't like losing face.

And yes, by blaming the other woman (never understood this??!) she is removing any blame from herself.
A relationship is done from the moment someone cheats.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 4:57 pm

Raggamuffin wrote:What about Oliver Mellor? He was said to have dumped Rhian Sugden, but apparently he hasn't.

And he has posted a tacky pic of them in bed together to prove it. Laughing

http://metro.co.uk/2016/04/04/coronation-street-actor-oliver-mellor-denies-claims-he-dumped-rhian-sugden-over-vernon-kay-texts-5793733/

Maybe his acting work has dried up and he needs the publicity she is generating for him.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:00 pm

eddie wrote:Tess Daly is an idiot and clearly thinks by clinging on she can "fix" things.
She's either:

Insecure
Or
Hates losing

Some partners cling on even after being publically humiliated becaeue they don't like losing face.

And yes, by blaming the other woman (never understood this??!) she is removing any blame from herself.
A relationship is done from the moment someone cheats.

Cheryl Cole clung on to her waste of space husband (Ashley Cole) for ages didn't she.

In RL I know a few women who have done so....some, not all, do eventually get rid when they realise they are backing a loser.

by Raggamuffin Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:01 pm

eddie wrote:Tess Daly is an idiot and clearly thinks by clinging on she can "fix" things.
She's either:

Insecure
Or
Hates losing

Some partners cling on even after being publically humiliated becaeue they don't like losing face.

And yes, by blaming the other woman (never understood this??!) she is removing any blame from herself.
A relationship is done from the moment someone cheats.

Why would she blame herself?

by Major Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:02 pm

Dalliances are as common as burguz, they are going on all over the world right now, maybe a lot closer to you than you could imagine.
I know of two instances right now, I disagree strongly with it and say nowt.
I dare not or ever would have done it, my wife always says she would stick red hot needulz in my eyez az I slept, I believe her.

Staying together may work out but I don't reckon I could be forgiving.

The grass is NOT always greener on the other side,

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:02 pm

Syl wrote:
Raggamuffin wrote:What about Oliver Mellor? He was said to have dumped Rhian Sugden, but apparently he hasn't.

And he has posted a tacky pic of them in bed together to prove it.

http://metro.co.uk/2016/04/04/coronation-street-actor-oliver-mellor-denies-claims-he-dumped-rhian-sugden-over-vernon-kay-texts-5793733/

Maybe his acting work has dried up and he needs the publicity she is generating for him.

Does he not realise, how that just screams of desperation?
It's actually embarressing.

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:03 pm

Raggamuffin wrote:
eddie wrote:Tess Daly is an idiot and clearly thinks by clinging on she can "fix" things.
She's either:

Insecure
Or
Hates losing

Some partners cling on even after being publically humiliated becaeue they don't like losing face.

And yes, by blaming the other woman (never understood this??!) she is removing any blame from herself.
A relationship is done from the moment someone cheats.

Why would she blame herself?

Sorry I meant him!!

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:10 pm

Stormee wrote:Dalliances are as common as burguz, they are going on all over the world right now, maybe a lot closer to you than you could imagine.
I know of two instances right now, I disagree strongly with it and say nowt.
I dare not or ever would have done it, my wife always says she would stick red hot needulz in my eyez az I slept, I believe her.

Staying together may work out but I don't reckon I could be forgiving.

The grass is NOT always greener on the other side,

Sometimes it's the people you least expect who are cheating on their partners...and obviously it's not always the husband who has a wandering eye.

I would never open my mouth and tell anyone their OH is messing about either.
I think if it was me I would want to know though. Twisted Evil

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:11 pm

I would definitely tell a friend if I knew their partner was cheating.

by Raggamuffin Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:12 pm

You'd think Oliver Mellor would be a bit annoyed that his fiance was prepared to reveal she'd been planning to meet another bloke just to get some publicity really. I don't think that relationship will last.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:12 pm

eddie wrote:I would definitely tell a friend if I knew their partner was cheating.

I would want you as that friend I think.

It must be horrible to be the last person to know.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:13 pm

Raggamuffin wrote:You'd think Oliver Mellor would be a bit annoyed that his fiance was prepared to reveal she'd been planning to meet another bloke just to get some publicity really. I don't think that relationship will last.

Do you remember him being in Coronation St....I don't. scratch

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:16 pm

Stormee wrote:Dalliances are as common as burguz, they are going on all over the world right now, maybe a lot closer to you than you could imagine.
I know of two instances right now, I disagree strongly with it and say nowt.
I dare not or ever would have done it, my wife always says she would stick red hot needulz in my eyez az I slept, I believe her.

Staying together may work out but I don't reckon I could be forgiving.

The grass is NOT always greener on the other side,

From what you have said about her I believe she would too. Razz

Seriously, if my OH cheated I wouldn't want revenge, but I don't think I could carry on loving someone who treated me badly.
Easy to say because my son is an adult....perhaps when he was younger I would have felt differently...not sure.

by Raggamuffin Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:17 pm

Syl wrote:
Raggamuffin wrote:You'd think Oliver Mellor would be a bit annoyed that his fiance was prepared to reveal she'd been planning to meet another bloke just to get some publicity really. I don't think that relationship will last.

Do you remember him being in Coronation St....I don't.

Yes - he was the nice, handsome doctor who went out with Tina, but she dumped him because he wanted her to "better" herself.

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:18 pm

Raggamuffin wrote:You'd think Oliver Mellor would be a bit annoyed that his fiance was prepared to reveal she'd been planning to meet another bloke just to get some publicity really. I don't think that relationship will last.

He smacks of desperation and it's all about ego IMO

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:19 pm

Syl wrote:
eddie wrote:I would definitely tell a friend if I knew their partner was cheating.

I would want you as that friend I think.

It must be horrible to be the last person to know.

I don't think you can call yourself a friend if you wouldn't let a person know they're being lied to and betrayed.

by Raggamuffin Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:21 pm

eddie wrote:
Raggamuffin wrote:You'd think Oliver Mellor would be a bit annoyed that his fiance was prepared to reveal she'd been planning to meet another bloke just to get some publicity really. I don't think that relationship will last.

He smacks of desperation and it's all about ego IMO

That's a bit harsh. No one has said that about Tess Daly, and she's all over the place saying that she's standing by Vernon.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:23 pm

eddie wrote:
Syl wrote:

I would want you as that friend I think.

It must be horrible to be the last person to know.

I don't think you can call yourself a friend if you wouldn't let a person know they're being lied to and betrayed.

I don't think it's as easy as that. For one thing you would have to have definite proof....things are not always how they seem.
Probably if the innocent partner had suspicions and asked or hinted I would say something. If not I might say something to the cheater, but I don't think I would say anything to the wife (or husband)

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:23 pm

I've already covered that when I mentioned her, above?
It's either about insecurity or losing face (desperation and ego)

And the "desperation" in the Twitter pic of Oliver in bed with Rhian was what I was talking about.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:24 pm

Raggamuffin wrote:
eddie wrote:

He smacks of desperation and it's all about ego IMO

That's a bit harsh. No one has said that about Tess Daly, and she's all over the place saying that she's standing by Vernon.

True.....but Tess Daly isn't posting bedroom snaps.

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:28 pm

Syl wrote:
Raggamuffin wrote:
eddie wrote:

He smacks of desperation and it's all about ego IMO

That's a bit harsh. No one has said that about Tess Daly, and she's all over the place saying that she's standing by Vernon.

True.....but Tess Daly isn't posting bedroom snaps.

Exactly. Oliver's pic smacked of desperation, which I said a few posts back.
Rags isn't on the ball today Razz

by Raggamuffin Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:30 pm

I still think it's a bit harsh.

by Miffs2 Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:35 pm

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Syl wrote:
Raggamuffin wrote:What about Oliver Mellor? He was said to have dumped Rhian Sugden, but apparently he hasn't.

And he has posted a tacky pic of them in bed together to prove it.

http://metro.co.uk/2016/04/04/coronation-street-actor-oliver-mellor-denies-claims-he-dumped-rhian-sugden-over-vernon-kay-texts-5793733/

Maybe his acting work has dried up and he needs the publicity she is generating for him.

It didn't work I haven't a clue who they are!

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:42 pm

Me neither nems!

by 'Wolfie Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:47 pm

WHO THE (BEEP!) are Vernon Kay and Tess Daly anyway ?

HAS ANYONE outside of the UK ever heard of them ?

AND if not, why not ?

by Raggamuffin Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:51 pm

They do presenting I think. I don't watch anything with them in it.

by Miffs2 Mon Apr 04, 2016 5:52 pm

eddie wrote:Me neither nems!

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 6:01 pm

I like Strictly come dancing...she hosts it now Brucie has retired.

by Major Mon Apr 04, 2016 6:15 pm

Looking back over the years I have seen much misery and some violence when one or the other strays.

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 6:22 pm

Perhaps Vernon Kay feels threatened by his wife as she's more successful than he?

Lots of men don't like that and I can understand why.

by Syl Mon Apr 04, 2016 6:31 pm

Perhaps he is just sleazy.
He gave an interview last year bragging about how he still loves his 'lads' nights out...(he is in his 40's) and they all refuse to take their mobile phones with them because they don't want to be disturbed. He says.."if anyone wants us they have to come and find us".

Very responsible attitude to have when you have a wife and two small children at home.

by eddie Mon Apr 04, 2016 6:35 pm

Yeah he's an idiot. I wouldn't ring or text my husband if he was on a night out - people want to enjoy themselves not be disturbed by their other halves - I'd only ring if it was entirely necessary, but I wouldn't expect my husband to leave his phine at home either.

He sounds like he needs to grow the fuck up.

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